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king.srishivam
broken heart
written by king.srishivam, October 22, 2014
sir i was in a relationship with a girl from
2year .we have physical but i abused
hermany time so her love has ended .
what ihave to do i cannt live without her
tickoo.arun7
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written by tickoo.arun7, September 09, 2014
ut after 1 years she love mee . She told our ex bf i am not live with u and she told him i love anyone else but he is not understand . He is threatning her like . I told ur mom and dad , i kill our self and i have worte sucide note my kill reason is she and i kill u and ur family etc... and she is scared him . He is forcing her to pick ky phone call and meet me if she is not do this he is standing outside her office and home and shouting plz sir give me advice wat can i doo plz sir
1388adis
HI LOVE GURU...WAITING EAGARLY FOR YOUR REPLY
written by 1388adis, January 01, 2014
Hi Love Guru,

Very heart warming to see guys like you helping out people. Hi I am Aditya Singh, I've got a school friend with whom recently I started interacting a lot since the past 1 week or so.

She only used to start conversations on whatsapp and we used to talk till late. Eventually she started getting to know about my personal life..used to tell me stuff like "I am a cute guy", "she really likes me"..However I couldnt get as if she was telling all that from a friend's point of view or that she likes me cuz she is a girl with bindaas attitude and very outgoing.

However she started asking me on every evening for 2-3 days that "what am I doing now, what would I do later...In short she used to ask me out about my daily routine, what all I like and stuff like dat"...one day when I was kidding with her saying she is a lesbian...she replied saying "if I would hav been a lesbian then how could I like you" - these line jolted me a lot as a straight girl might say these words only If she is implying that she cant be a lesbian as she likes a guy (me)

But all of a sudden out of nowhere she has stopped talking to me...I even messaged her (hoping she would start a conversation (she even said one day "U r messaging a lot these days (with a smiley)")...but she just talks a bit....(although i find her active on whatsapp all day long).

I dont know whatz in her mind as definitely I started developing feelings for her cuz we gel along together very well (she also says this)....she even asked me to meet her when I go to my hometown next weekend.....I dont know whatz goin in her mind....

COULD YOU PLEASE HELP ME...as I am totally confused about whatz happening in my life...

Hope you reply soon..

Your well-wisher,
Aditya Singh
jashans00
She is angry with me.
written by jashans00, October 02, 2013
i love a girl i met her 1 month before in a party we exchanged our numbers we are talking from 1 month and i purposed her last day and after she stop replying me and not picking my calls.
i am dont know what to do now please help me..
inocentpoojakumari17
give me suggestion
written by inocentpoojakumari17, September 02, 2013
helw! luv guru m pooja n i luv a guy his's name is harzeet we were in relationship passed 1 n half year bt due to some n=misunderstanding i dont use to talk wid him bt one very day he called me n introduce wid priyanka by telling he luvs her a lot n after 2-3 months he called me n told me dat he wants to be my frnd n i hd told him yes n after some days he told me, he still loves me bt he use to stay in contact wid priyanka i hd told him several times nt to talk wid her but he didnt listen to me n every time he refuses to do this bt at the same time he always use to remid me dat he loves me a lot n i m totaly confused by this did he still loves me or not plz give me some suggestion..........................
sarthakalya
wanna do friendship with som1
written by sarthak jain, August 22, 2013
hey love guru..i have no girl friend...
i like a girl,bt she is not on my department..& when i stand before her,i lose confidence so that i can't even talk to her..
i don't know how should i put my praposal of friendship before her...so she won't reject...
but first of all i wanna meet her her once and i am confusing that how i will introduce myself...plz help me
ami vaghela
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written by ami vaghela, August 07, 2013
hey love guru
i love some one and he also loves me
but the problem is his family is joint and very good family
they are having old thinking
we both are same cast but we have different "SAMAJ" and he has to merry with a girl who belongs his "samaj"
he loves me but he respect his family so he is not able to talk about our relationship with his family..
we are still friends we meet at college in group we never meet alone this is our relationship
we are just like good friends share everything with each other etc...
n we always say i love you to each other
we are very understanding with each other
no one can care for me like him
n no one can care for him like me...
we both very special for each other..
still i didn't give up i have trust on god and my love..
he is saying me to touch with him as friends for forever..
i love him i cant accept any other guy in future..he loves me but he is giving 1st priority to his family
what to do love guru ???? please help me........
angel.lonely123
broken angel
written by mini7, July 08, 2013
hi luv guru Ji
I luv a guy a lott in family.He z my czn's czn but the main prob z i added him on fb as unknwn thru my fake id cz my family z really narraw minded type ,cant interact wd him freely,cnt talk to any male etc in dyr presence but i really wanted to becum his frnd so i did tat via fb .Eventually v exchanged numbers n started chatting but few days later i was very guilty abt wat i did so i told him all the truth .He wasnt angry at first but z very scared due to family issue n v still talked but suddenly i dnt no wat had happpened he started avoidng me n finally ,now v dnt talk at all as if v r strangers.No reply to my texts,neither do attends my calls.Although he accepted my fb req wen i added him from my real id but he doesnt cmmnt .no likes nothing at all.
PLEASE LUv GURU advise me on wat shud i do to get him back????
rathekid89
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written by rathekid89, June 16, 2013
Hi,
I love a girl who is very good friend of mine from college days.she knows that i like her and also like my company and talk with me but when it comes to relationship,she feels uneasy.i love her too much and i don't know what to do make this relationship work.help me.
ananya.roychowdhury
plzzzzz help
written by Ananya, June 13, 2013
me and my bf is in a relatn for 6 months and now m madly in love with him...i talked with one of my bf as a friend bt he took it differently and misunderstood me..nw he is telling dat i hv broken his trust...i stopped talking to my x bf i jst want him back at any cost..bt he is not listning 2 me..i tried to make him understand i ech and every possible way but of no use...m becoming helpless now..he dosnt wana listn nything..and he is not meeting me also...plz help me
amit.yad96
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written by amy, May 27, 2013
i m in 12th nd i luv a grl ...she lyks me too nd accordng to her i m sweetest guy she has evr met but the problm is her atitude , she doesnt wants to be in a relationshp with me neither anyone else ...hum roz 4-5 hrs msg karte hain nd jab sab sahi hota hain to wo achnak se bolne lgti hain tht i dont luv u nd humare beech kuch nhi ho skta !! wo pehle aisi nhi thi lekin i hrd uska ek ladke ke sath brkup hua tabse wo aisi ho gayi hain!!! i luv her nd i want her at any stake, wat to do now !!
coolsuryadon
Love someone
written by coolsuryadon, May 26, 2013
Hiii..love guru
Actually I like one girl but she is stranger to me I am not getting how should I get close to her..
akankshamaheshwari2
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written by akankshamaheshwari2, May 19, 2013
hi love guru i really need help i m in a relation from last 4 years or me apne lover se bahut pyar krti hu or vo b mujse bt pichle kuch dino se muje mera pyar feel ni ho rha h mene usse b bat ki bt he told me aisa kuch ni h tumhe aise hi lga hoga bt ni muje pta ni kuch b feel ni ho rha h me sach me usse pir se pyar krna chahti hu or hmare bich aisa kuch b ni hua tha bt pta ni muje kuch b feel ni ho rha h plz help me i wanna love him again and forever plz help me
avasthisameer
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written by avasthisameer, March 25, 2013
meri ek girlfriend thi......... but we are broked now...... but i still luv her ......... we have broked four times and always from her side ....... she even not tell me the reason a single time.......... i want her back ...... but i don't have her contact no. and i don't know her house........... tell me what can i do get my luv back
devendrasinghsandu
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written by devendrasinghsandu, March 20, 2013
Hi..love guru..
I just need ur suggestion..
when i was in 11th standard in 2004, i liked a girl..but never talked to her..bcoz i wanted to settle 1st and after my schooling i got admission in india`s best engg. college(IIT). after completion of my graduation i proposed her..and she agreed..bt few months ago she told about me to her family and her family refused me because i`m from sc category and she wants to be with me and she tried also. but she has lots of pressure n sentiyape of her family nd she dont wanna go against her family. her mom told her to not to talk to me, so she is not talking to me but i want to try. i want to convence her parents. but now the situation is, she is not talking to me, she is not listening to me at all, and she said if her parents want to do this "kr lene do unhe, ab wo apni beti ko khush nhi dekhna chahte to kya kr skte hai, meri life unke hi haath me hai".
but i dont think ki sab kuchh aise chhod dena chahiye. her parents will do watever they want but we shld try till end.
Please suggest me anything. I`m loosing my patience but i`m not that type of person ki tu nhi koi aur sahi aur nahi koi aur sahi so i just want to take stand.
pooja.jaiswal13
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written by sush, March 08, 2013
so here im lykn this friend of mine a lot..we are really good friends..he likes me as a friend..compliments me evry now and then but never says that he loves me n in betwn all this ive strtd lovn me mo but he loves a girl..they are not in a relntnshp yt but are very close..im a girl who kinda cant approach a guy first n tel him wat i feel about him..im feeling totally helpless plz tell me a solutn to cum out of this problem
ravinaik625
plz need ur advice.......
written by ravinaik625, January 19, 2013
hello ma"m
from usual travel from college to home i never knew that one day it change so drastically,i saw a girl in the dreaming in her own world. i could not able to get of mine sight,i tried my best to avoid her but couldn't able untill she got seat in-front. for a nearly a week i never saw her in any bus but eventually started to pray to god, i did so but even i saw in my own college.after that it become occasionally to see her& wait after my class or even bunk the lecture.Even more coincident was that she was her house was in nearby villge & this become good reason to wait & give myself to talk to her. she was my junior.once i got chance i used to talk with her we had usual conversation.after 2-3 usual conversation i proposed her in bus only i was so much nervous that mine whole body was shaky mine words were stammered i couldn't usual proposal which i planned for a week.while i was proposing she laughing from since i could felt it that time.even i made a mistake mean time in stationary shop i took wrong book from i was in hurry to get in d bus in which she was i took wrong book went home next day when she was in same stationary shop i went inside & shop owner shouted me for my mistake i don't replied anything she was looking at me.to see her without fail in bus stand without fail & her friend came about my love towards her.in usual conversation she told lies about herself & she told she has boyfriend as i don't believe since she tell lies.i don't know ma"m whether she ignores me or not. in shot i think about her every time even i try to control myself i just wait outside corridor, canteen, labs busstop etc. i was to never wake up on time now i do so may be even as early as 5;50am in mrng. MA"m my problem is that what should i do now as she already rejected me ....ma"m don't say to forget as its not possible to do so as i already tried.
rashmilalchandani
pls help love problem
written by rashmilalchandani, December 18, 2012
dear mam, i request u to kindly give me some solution for my love problem...by reading my story. I met one guy last year in network coaching class he used to talk very sweetly in whole class with me we became freinds he asked me i have so many numbers which one i give u..?? he was very happy then after that i proposed him he didnot said anything to me around 4 months and was behaving sweet and normal freind.. he used to callme and chat with me also ..then one of his freind told me difftrnt things about him he have 3gfs , he is getting married and love marige not allowed in his family so his freind told me to just go and tell him truth that i like him.. and whn i told him these diffrent things that ur freind is tellng this to me and i again said i really love u from my pure heart...he rejctd me and in big anger he told me he have gf and hes commited...and told me y u discuss for me with evryone that u like me...but i said i havenot discussed anythng ur freind told me himself... then i said i m really very sory..for watevear i told u...and he said i have no problem in becoming normal freinds why u think so negative that i dont like anythng ..then when i said lie to him that i am not serious for u ..forgot everythng watevr i told u...for his hapiness i totaly started ignoring him and stoped all calls and message to him ..because i was so scared... i dont loose my freind also.... then when i started talking to other guys he said this to me..."Dont think u r oversmart all boys are mad who talk to you.."" then after sayng this he became completely silnt for 7months we both ignoring each other... he didnot told me even the reason ... and he didnot wished my birthday also as a normal freind ... this time... when i acceptd we r just frinds then why he silnt from next day his behaviour is changed completeley silnt....this question i wana ask you mam... and after 7mnths i met one guy on fake id on yahoo chat he asked me directly do u have this cell phone?? i asked how u know ?? he said i am magician i got to know it is written on ur picture when u shared... but i asked evrybody my other freinds they all said nothing is written there on ur picture about cell name ...and i have a big doubt hes same guy because i only showed my cell last year in class to him... and nobody knews about my cell phone ...name.. so mam this is my 2nd question i m very confused hes not ready to admit hes same guy......... and silent on real id not behaving as normal frind also??? pls can u help me give some idea and solution...thanks

thanks
rsharma1006
how to know my gf lus me truly
written by rsharma1006, November 02, 2012
i am having a girlfrnd and luvs her vry much.but how to know that she also luvs me the same and has same feeling as me.please give me sum points so that i can know that she also luvs me a lot??????
sonam.5vij
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written by sonam.5vij, October 08, 2012
hi love guru
sonam.5vij
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written by sonam.5vij, October 08, 2012
hlo,can u please gve me some advice to make otehr 1ne feel for me same as i do,i like 1ne boy from last 4 years bt he was not aware about this as we never talk to each other but as i came to delhi few days ago i start taking to him as he comes in my family realations,we talked to each other very sweetly and during our talk i told him watevr i feel for him he ignored at that tym after that we he told's me he is olso having some sort of crush on me,bt he told's me that we cant be togthr just bcoz it ill be insulting for both of ur in our famliy and at my end i know nuthng is insultng and even i knw he likes me alot,he olws blushes even he loves to tak to me,he can sacrifce himslf just to tak to me,bt as few days ago he meet me and told me that we shuld stop taking to each other it ill b bttr fr us,nd he told's me taht that he never feel for,he hates me...i am not gttng wat to do how i can make him feel for me same as i do,please give me advice even i know he cares about me bt i dun know wat d hell problem is with him smilies/sad.gif
rahul9954
Helpless....
written by Pratik, September 22, 2012
I have feelings for a girl. We dont know each other personally. We just know each other through common friends (we have lots). When I first saw her & came to know about her there was no such thing but recently in the past few months I have developed feelings for her which are becoming intense. I think she might be committed but I'm not sure. We've hardly met (twice or thrice in 2 years that we have known each other) & we've never talked. But still she knows about my existence. Though in the same town & having passed out from the same college with lots of common friends, we live in two different worlds. I dont know what to do. I wanna let her know how I feel but I'm sure she would be react negatively if I do so & start hating me. What should I do? I wanna see her but I am not able to. I wanna tell her how I feel about her but I cant. I cant talk to anyone about this & its impossible to forget her. Its killing me inside. Its not just a crush or inflation. I have true feelings for her & I am sure about it.smilies/sad.gif
deepak.soni9041
for love
written by deepak.soni9041, September 14, 2012
mai ek ladki se payar karta hu aur wo bhi mujse payar karti hai . muje to viswas hai ki wo mujse payar karti hai . par usko viswas nahi hota ki mai usse payar karta hu wo kah rahi hai ki proof koro ki aap mujse payar karte ho.to mai kaise proof karu ki mai us se payar karta hu ?
bhairavimedarametla
plz help me
written by bhairavi, September 10, 2012
hi
i m loving a guy.. and i said that to him
he is also loving me but he is giving more importance to his family..
here whatz the prblm is he is frm different caste..so what he is saying is his father will nt accept this so i hv to forget him...
i m going to meet him nxt week..
i dnt know what to talk to him and how to convince him..
i m saying that i will wait for him till his father accepts my love..
but he is hopeless abt accepting my love by his father..
i m nt hvng any idea abt convincing him..
i m hvng only 3 hours time nxt week to ask him..
plz help me
plz suggest me what to talk and how to convince him..

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alak.khanna
ur suggestion
written by alak.khanna, August 24, 2012
hello,
i realy need ur help....i dnt knw wht to do????plzzzzzzzzzz help me
i m in a relationship but i never told him about my x.....but he know about him evrything now.....my x is not a good person he hurt me lots of time , he use abusive word for me....even when i was trying to break up with him,he try to hurt me even he did. this is happened when i was in class 12 n i accepted his praposal bec he cut his vein for me n cry for me but suddenly his elder sister was get died....so i accepted his praposal...but after 2 years a guy come in my life...he is vry vry swt, he luv me lot....but now after 3 yr my x came to knw about me n my bf....he trying to hurt me agn n he told my bf about our reltnshp.....my bf get breakup with me....he said i used him...but thats is wrong i really luv him....n i told him that i like sum one when he is not in my life but cant say the full truth of my life just bec of posseve nature....plzz help me..my bf hurt himself...he cut his hand with bladen done lots of other thing...he is not putting my call...i will kill myself if...i dnt proof my honesty to him..
Paanchoooo
Confussed lover
written by Paanchoooo, August 18, 2012
I am in relation with this girl from last 5 yrs. during first 2 yrs each and everything was working well and we have decided that in 2009 April, we will be getting married. on reaching this date she finally started saying me that she can't marry me and forget me.. later on it comes to know she has got married with some1 in January 2009 with out my knowledge. finally by seeing my age my family started for searching bride for me in the same yr. due to depression i said yes to this marriage. and finally for married in 2010. During this yr we were in touch with each other. and in Jan 2010 i visited her place to meet her for 2 days. during this yr each and everything was working properly and we were in touch and meeting on regular basis. But in last week one some call she admitted that she misses me alot on daily basis... from heart i too was missing her but was not committed anytime to her, but on that day i too committed her that, still my feeling is the same which was with her in initial stage. She said its wrong and i am doing injustice with my wife. I said i know i am doing but to hide feeling is more painful then to expressing these. On asking the reason, why she was ignoring me... she told that she can;t see me leaving my bhaiya and bhabhi for her. She too express that she never got the love which she was expecting from her hubby and even he is not understandable.

Pls suggest what should i do.... i am in such scenario that I can't see her crying.. and can't leave my wife.
Aakash
love problem
written by Aakash, August 06, 2012
Maina ek ladki ko "143" likh kar propose kiya.?
maina use ek greeting diya jiske andr maina likha tha "i think very much protective about u and 143" uss din who sochana lagi . dena ka baad main apna dostion ko khananni sunnana suru kiya . who dhayan se meri baat sun rahi thi aur mujsa kuch questions bhi poochi (us kahanni ka bara main) . doosera din ussaka maths book main saat baar "143" likh rakha tha . (all 143 were scribbled) main thoda confuse ho gaya aur main doosri ladki ko dekhna suru kar diya . suddenly who ek paper ka piece mera paas pheki . maina us paper piece ko dust bin me phek diya. wo uddas (sad) ho gai. maina ussa chocklate offer ki tho ussne mana kar diya. phir maina doosri ladki ko krishna aur raadha ka photo dikhna laga. acchanak(suddenly) usna kaha ki"i am krishna" aur maina kaha ki " u r not krishna ,u r shakuni". doosri larki bohot haasana lagi. guusa(angry) se ussna kaha"u want to see my boyfriend photo see it". maina ussa naam ( boyfriend ka) poocha. par ussa apna boyfriend ka naam pata nahi tha. doosara din maina us paper ko dustbin se utthaya to maina deha ki ussma"143" likha tha . aur who halka ghasitta(scribbled) huya tha . tho ghaseetana(scribble) ka matalab kya tha? ghaseetana ka matalab who "haan (yes) ya(or) na(no) kehna chatti thi?
leannemolnar
how to win back my ex?
written by leannemolnar, July 24, 2012
hi, i split up with my boyfriend just over a week ago because he said he 'needed to be single for a while' i know it hasnt been very long but he means absolutely everything to me, i miss him so much and i've got to get him back and eventhough i know he's been chatting up other girls since and have my suspicions that he may be interested in a friend of his, i refuse to give up fighting for him! i've arranged to meet him in a few days from now and was wondering if you could please help me on what the right things to say and do are to help win back his heart. please dont tell me not to bother etc. i've made up my mind he's the only thing in this world that makes me truly happy so please help me! smilies/sad.gif
hharrylove32
love
written by hharrylove32, July 23, 2012
i want a girl who really love me so plz help me...smilies/angry.gif
hharrylove32
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written by ........, July 08, 2012
i love a girl but she have another boyfriend before 4years, she accept my propose but she never love me she never give me time to talk or to meet, so tell me what i do to get her love please help me....
pujan_shres
Frustrated
written by pujan_shres, May 10, 2012
Hi guru i posted my comments more than five times but i m not gettin any solutions ,,,,,
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i luv a girl
written by unknown, May 01, 2012
hi guru i hav completed 12 class and working as volunteer teacher in my own school and i m gettin attracted by one girl but i m not gettng any ideA what to do?now i m preparing for mbbs and left my school.Is it right to say her that i like her or not ?If yes then what is the better way to express my love?Please give me suggestion....as soon as posible....
akashraja.28
heart break
written by avidhigupta, March 25, 2012
hi love guru!! this is akash
i am going to complete my x exams on 26th march. I have a serious love problem, i know i am still 2 years sort of 18 but still i have very strong feelings for a girl. it all happened when i was in 9th. i loved a girl, but she said no and so i was very hurted and found myself lonely after the incident, then one girl name vidhisha became my friend and slowly my best friend for ever. I did everything for her and was very desperate of her. Then in x i realized i luved her and she had a break-up with her bf but was having crush on another guy! i still thought there will be no chance after x so i proposed her online n she misunderstood as if i was joking. So i decided to write a love letter to her, and on back of it i wrote i luv u with my blood. i kept the letter in one of her notebook without her knowledge n told her secretly to see the notebook. to my suprise she went n to tell miss about the letter and cutted me off from her friends list. i managed teacher not to leak to anyone. but now every moment i m missing her badly, but i can not do anything i m helpless. she has blocked me n fb. And she told some of her friends that i am very irritaing n desperate, and she only became my friend just help me to over come my depression and never made me close to her. i have many choices of girls, but my problem is i still remember her n cant be with someone else.
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my lover wants normal relation due to fear of her prents
written by ANSHUL JAIN, March 11, 2012
hii!!!!! Love guru i am in love wid a gal from last 2 year 3month but we never seen each other face to face nd never met to each other but we loved deep as cnt be expresssed .. but wen she went to cousin house she got knowledge about affair nd made frightened that if ur parents will know about relation it will be bad fr u from dat tym she is saying we should have normal relation but i dnt wannna to be so..... 1nce i mde her to continue same as before but again she started now she started ignoring me though its difficult to her too before she cant leave without a minute widout mah sms pls help me how to get same relation smoothly in love............. pls help smilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gifsmilies/angry.gif
anuragpundir007
please help :'(
written by Anurag Pundir, February 29, 2012
hello..
iam in a very big problem.... i love a girl and she loves me too but somehow her parents came to know bout it n now they are against it... they have told us to just call it off.. we love each other so much we dont wana live without each other.. but we both are right now in our college n totally dependent on our parents. we cannot think of taking any big step. my parents have no objection but her parents are strictly against our love. her family is quite orthodox.. what should we do.. plz help us...
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help me
written by mahendra , February 12, 2012
sir me ek ladki se pichle 9 saal se bahut pyar karta hu or aaj v karta hu.or vo bhi mujhe se bahut pyar karthi thi par uski ab sadi ho gai he or me use bhol nahi pa raha hu, usne mjhse 3 saal se baat v nahi ki he.mujhe vo hamesa yaad ati rehti he jaha dekhta hu vo hi najar aati he .sir pls help me now
0
love story
written by gravyyard, February 08, 2012
hii i m sumit frm orissa,i love a girl and she also love me bt we are having family problm so what we have to do yaar.???????
singhharry052
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written by singhharry052, February 06, 2012
sir i love a grl bt whn i had praposed hr she said no.
and also she likes me as i think so bt due to some reasons she is nt accepting my prapose this is becoz i had seen hr stairing at me whn so ever i am infront of hr on road,in mall,in weddings or any where bt whn i praposed hr she was laughfing at me and said never dare to talk to me. PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ HELP ME I DONT WANT TO LOSE HER PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ smilies/sad.gif
jainsayyam5193
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written by jainsayyam5193, January 20, 2012
'm in love with of my friend and also proposed her. Initially she refused it by saying she just like me as a friend. But i kne her feeling for me and and thus frequently asked some questions and she agreed that she have the same feelings that i've for her. But she say's it not possible for her to be in relationship cause she wanna study further and assured me by sating she'll try to do whatever she can do after her studies are completed.But i'm just afraid of losing her in between cause it will take more than 6 years for completion of her studie. Plz suggest me what should I do now... Plz help me out....
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about love
written by pankaj kumar tak, December 17, 2011
sir my name is pankaj tak. i lave a girl so much. she is in my training.before 2 day ago she talk to me but one boy did interfear between she and me. i know she know me as a friend but i lave her and now she is avoid me pls tell me what i do i m very upset. bcoz it happened earliar one time and if now she will not meet me i will die. pls call me or mail me. my no 09352350912
rahul tak
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written by rahul tak, November 28, 2011
Hi loveguru
I am rahul. I have one problem
I love a girl but I don't know she loves me or not .
I never talk her but when ever she sees me she smiles. What should i do ,, mail me...
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written by Sushil, November 26, 2011
Hi Love guru this is Sushil

I loves my best friend actualy we both work in same comapany.She said that i have no feeling for you. we will be as friends. hw can i raise a feeling in her for me. plz help me.
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Love boy
written by Akshara, November 17, 2011
Helo love guru mai ek ladke ko bhut pyar krti hu wo b mujse bhut pyar krta hai but ek din usne meri cal or msg krna band kar diya or bola ki mai apni x gf ko bhul nhi paa rha hu tu psand hai but relation nhi plzzzzzzzzzzz love guru help me mai kya karu jisse wo meri lyf me wapas aa jaye...............
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, April 12, 2011
"hi loveguru its naveen from punjab. Earlier i tld u about me that i love a girl who was my best friend.. But friend i wana let u knw i lost her. She is now happy in her life with the guy she loves..she just made me alone. Do u hv any suggestion for this situation!"

What you want. Ask yourself to make yourself happy or to see her happy. You will get the answer.if not get back to me.
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written by Naveen, April 11, 2011
hi loveguru its naveen from punjab. Earlier i tld u about me that i love a girl who was my best friend.. But friend i wana let u knw i lost her. She is now happy in her life with the guy she loves..she just made me alone. Do u hv any suggestion for this situation!
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, March 20, 2011
Hi Naveen,

"i m naveen from punjab... i love a girl who is my childhood friend and my truefriend.. earliear i was unable to tell her that i love her,, because i came to know that she loves somebody else so i kept my mouth shut... but the boy whom she loves,, her all friends are against him in the college,, and he always make her cry,, so she always come to me and everytime i make her laugh,,,ek din mujhse raha na gaya to maine usko bata diya.so after listening she said that she have no more feelings,, but told me that if our parents got ready she will happily live with me... so after few days i told this to my parents and after somedays she said she cant come with me,, because the boy is still in her mind..so i just tld her that go to that boy she loves,, and she went,,but the boyjst always make her to bend in front of him.and after someday she told me again that she wana come into my life,, i asked her that is it final? i repeated this for 2-3 days and then she said it is final... but after 2 days she again said that i cant come to you... i dont know why she is doing.. even her best friend dont like that guy to,, but she always go and sit with him and spend time with him,, and even she stopped talking to me i dnt knw y and even her friend helped me alot but still she is not understanding.. its killing me,she just now become rude day by day.. plz help me out,, i really love her alot yaar,, if the boy she loves she can go to him but as i came to knw from her friends i think he is not good for her.. she didnt even cared about our childhood friend,, she always keep telling that u all are wrong,, i m right.. so plz help me love guru.........."

As she is your childhood friend you must not she her go into the weel ?? Try to get back her from him. But you need go slowly slowly your friend is leaving in a glass house. If anyhow it breaks becuase of your fault you may loose your friend.

Thanks,
Love Guru
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, March 20, 2011
Hi Subrata,

"I have relation with one girl near abt 2 yr.she told me each and everything abt her previously and near abt 6 month ago she
rep by 7 boys to front of my eyes after that we think abt marrage.I talk to her family and with my family also.
Now my friend and others told me brack the relation and can't marry with her becose she is divorce.I know every thing.but now
i think i am take a wrong desition abt our relation.the girl totaly upset.Plesae told me what can i do now ? "

Fristly I appriciate you that after knowing everything abt the girl is divorced you are going to marry her. My friend all the divorced girl are not bad may be there are many reason the incidence happened. But I like to suggest you once you decide to get married you do all the background verification of that girl and then take the precious decision. friends will not leave with your wife. You are the person going to live with your wife so life partner decision must be yours. But verify once before getting married. if you need any more help abt this here is my mail id This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it '> This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it You can mail me personally I can suggest you.

Thanks,
Love Guru
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, March 20, 2011
Hi Harry

"'m in love with a girl. She too knows that. But her last boyfriend ditched her. So she is afraid as he is blackmailing her. She is having many contacts with other boys and she shares every thing which a girl should not share with boys. I proposed her on phone. None other than her knew that but now whole class knows that. I'm annoyed and she said that she can keep only friendship with me not love relationship. I made her a hone call yesterday and said that i don't wanna keep any relation with you no friendship nor relation.
was it right what should i do now plz guide...... "

A girl is only for love relationship not for friendship? Just listen your heart what your heart saying to keep contact with her or not. if saying keep contact my suggestion be her friend someday she will start to love you. "Kauke Ek ladka aur ek ladke ke pyar dosti se he banta hai" (A Girl and Boy love start from friendship). Otherwise leave it.

Thanks,
Love Guru
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, March 20, 2011
Hi manish tiwari

"i love the girl who all ready has a boy friend but i love her how i can do this
weather i can convince her or leave her please help me sir."

My sentence may be you not able to accept. Suppose you have a girlfriend and some one love her and any how manage to get her from you. How do you feel??

You can propose her as a friend keep contact with her. if she is happy with her present boy friend then you must not proceed otherwise you can try.

Thanks,
Love Guru
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, March 20, 2011
Hi rajivsunny29

"i was in relation since 1 n half year. after sometime my partner want commitment from me but that time i was not able to give her commitment and i am very loyal about her. but she think i am flirting with her and just time pass with her her. that time she gonna break up with me. but after sometime i told her i cannot live without you please come back in ma life and she agan refuse to accept me . and after that she told me "i donot have feeling for you, n i dnt love u so please dnt interfare in ma life". that day and now i am in dippression,i regret her please forgive me for wrong things i have done. i cry in front of her to get back her . actually she is having new boy friend. she replace me with her new boy friend. i became frustrate when i know about her new boy friend. i scold her abuse her. but after sometime i feel i was wrong i really want to make her mine. so please gave me any suggestion what should i do.. pls pls pls pls pls."

The way you are feeling for her the same way she feel when you refuse her. My suggestion if she is happy with her new boyfriend you must not go to her again. After lots of pain she decided to go with someone else.
One small suggestion I can give you. Go to her confess your wrong behaviour and come back to your home without saying anything more. If she is still having any love for you she will think of you once and may come back to you but chances is very less so you need to keep your patience and wait without disturbing her.

Thanks,
Love Guru
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please help me
written by Naveen, February 14, 2011
hey loveguru i m naveen from punjab... i love a girl who is my childhood friend and my truefriend.. earliear i was unable to tell her that i love her,, because i came to know that she loves somebody else so i kept my mouth shut... but the boy whom she loves,, her all friends are against him in the college,, and he always make her cry,, so she always come to me and everytime i make her laugh,,,ek din mujhse raha na gaya to maine usko bata diya.so after listening she said that she have no more feelings,, but told me that if our parents got ready she will happily live with me... so after few days i told this to my parents and after somedays she said she cant come with me,, because the boy is still in her mind..so i just tld her that go to that boy she loves,, and she went,,but the boyjst always make her to bend in front of him.and after someday she told me again that she wana come into my life,, i asked her that is it final? i repeated this for 2-3 days and then she said it is final... but after 2 days she again said that i cant come to you... i dont know why she is doing.. even her best friend dont like that guy to,, but she always go and sit with him and spend time with him,, and even she stopped talking to me i dnt knw y and even her friend helped me alot but still she is not understanding.. its killing me,she just now become rude day by day.. plz help me out,, i really love her alot yaar,, if the boy she loves she can go to him but as i came to knw from her friends i think he is not good for her.. she didnt even cared about our childhood friend,, she always keep telling that u all are wrong,, i m right.. so plz help me love guru............
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Please help me
written by bad boy, February 13, 2011
I have relation with a girl near about 2 yr.She told me all about her previously.Near about 6 month ago she rep by 7 -10 boys in front of me after that we desided for marrage.I will meet with her mom and talk with her mother about our relation and marrage and also told to my family also.after that we face some family problems for that we cant marry too early but she just presur me about that.Now a day I think i am take wrong decision about our marrage and also my friends told me breack the relation .That girl is divorce and all type of relation with me.
I told to him i don't want to continue our relation but she just came at my house and talk with my mom and dad,also call me regularly and requested to me for our relation.she told me she can't leave without me.I don't know what can i do now? can i breack the relation or continue?Please please help me urgently
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help what can i do???
written by Harry, February 02, 2011
dear loveguru,
i'm in love with a girl. She too knows that. But her last boyfriend ditched her. So she is afraid as he is blackmailing her. She is having many contacts with other boys and she shares every thing which a girl should not share with boys. I proposed her on phone. Noone other than her knew that but now whole class knows that. I'm annoyed and she said that she can keep only friendship with me not love relationship. I made her a hone call yesterday and said that i don't wanna keep any relation with you no friendship nor relation.
was it right what should i do now plz guide......
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written by manish tiwari, January 13, 2011
i love the girl who all ready has a boy friend but i love her how i can do this
weather i can convince her or leave her please help me sir
rajivsunny29
help me guru
written by rajivsunny29, January 13, 2011
hey love guru . i was in relation since 1 n half year. after sometime my partner want commitment from me but that time i was not able to give her commitment and i am very loyal about her. but she think i am flirting with her and just time pass with her her. that time she gonna break up with me. but after sometime i told her i cannot live without you please come back in ma life and she agan refuse to accept me . and after that she told me "i donot have feeling for you, n i dnt love u so please dnt interfare in ma life". that day and now i am in dippression,i regret her please forgive me for wrong things i have done. i cry in front of her to get back her . actually she is having new boy friend. she replace me with her new boy friend. i became frustrate when i know about her new boy friend. i scold her abuse her. but after sometime i feel i was wrong i really want to make her mine. so please gave me any suggestion what should i do.. pls pls pls pls pls
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, January 11, 2011
Hi Sad gal,

"who was wrong ????????????????/
hi guru m a sad gal i was in love wid a guy i propose him at first but it was of no value to me at all but i again propose him next time then i was in tru love i love him damn he nvr aceepted but he loved me alot few days back i told me him that my first propos was fake n at second time i reealy like u n it was the real one aftr this he is satered n he said that his love for me is dead n he has no feeling for me but i cant live without him what shld i do smilies/cry.gif"

You go to him and make him understand that your love is true for him. If he can accept you. You will be much happier throughout your life. May be this could change his mind and can accept you. Let me know if there I can help you with anything more.

Thanks,
Love Guru
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who was wrong ????????????????/
written by sad gal, January 11, 2011
hi guru m a sad gal i was in love wid a guy i propose him at first but it was of no value to me at all but i again propose him next time then i was in tru love i love him damn he nvr aceepted but he loved me alot few days back i told me him that my first propos was fake n at second time i reealy like u n it was the real one aftr this he is satered n he said that his love for me is dead n he has no feeling for me but i cant live without him what shld i do smilies/cry.gif
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, December 31, 2010
Hi Gauransh
me gauransh again.....u said ask her for outing alone, i have tried it before,..... she usually asks for some third person like "can we call her as well?" or "can i call my school friend?"...if the third person is busy she comes alone wid me and she has said dis before dat "does'nt matter any one comes or not we both can easily have fun", but she does not tell dis to make me come wid her alone,she has no intensions of it, i can make it out. so my question is....... is she little nervous to come alone wid me? or she has no option left except for me to go out wid n so she comes alone wid me? or i think she always asks for third person because she does'nt want "ME" to think dat she wants to come wid me alone.....may b she does'nt want me to think wrong...dat she loves me....so wat is it dat she wants? i knw it's difficult but u can solve it and suggest something useful please reply soon....

I think she is felling shy going out with you. So better first time take any of your friend and ask her to take her friend too. While you are outing make your friend and her friend busy themselves and you take the opportunity to show your talent.smilies/smiley.gif
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, December 31, 2010
Hi mudasir,
"Hi this is mudasir from kashmir..sir i fall in love in my teenage and we both continue it for a one and half month and after that due to some reasons she r getting alone..about 3 yr passes we meet again ,both have a lot happiness we continue it still this time we love a lot both each other but i love her 2 much than her..everyday we calling each other i do everythng for her but she cant undrstnd it and take easy my love before one day she says i am not accepting u and i weeps a lot i dont know wht can i do ..plz help me"

I can understand your felling but a person who is not accepting you. Make yourself understand that she is not like you. There is someone better person waiting for you. There is a quote "Love who love you".
Meet with your more friends and talk to them that will help you to relax you and get your focus out of her. if she truly love you she will obviously come back to you.
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one more question
written by Gauransh, December 31, 2010
hello love guru,
me gauransh again.....u said ask her for outing alone, i have tried it before,..... she usually asks for some third person like "can we call her as well?" or "can i call my school friend?"...if the third person is busy she comes alone wid me and she has said dis before dat "does'nt matter any one comes or not we both can easily have fun", but she does not tell dis to make me come wid her alone,she has no intensions of it, i can make it out. so my question is....... is she little nervous to come alone wid me? or she has no option left except for me to go out wid n so she comes alone wid me? or i think she always asks for third person because she does'nt want "ME" to think dat she wants to come wid me alone.....may b she does'nt want me to think wrong...dat she loves me....so wat is it dat she wants? i knw it's difficult but u can solve it and suggest something useful please reply soon....
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She always break my heart everytime..
written by Mudasir, December 31, 2010
Hi this is mudasir from kashmir..sir i fall in love in my teenage and we both continue it for a one and half month and after that due to some reasons she r getting alone..about 3 yr passes we meet again ,both have a lot happiness we continue it still this time we love a lot both each other but i love her 2 much than her..everyday we calling each other i do everythng for her but she cant undrstnd it and take easy my love before one day she says i am not accepting u and i weeps a lot i dont know wht can i do ..plz help me
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, December 27, 2010
Hi sonali,

"I have 2 friends and I love both of them. You can say both are my 2 part of my heart. They both love me a lot. Even they both proposed me. I said both of them my problems and they are 2 confused and they both want me and can do anything for me. They both have one answer I want to leave for you. As I said they both are 2 part of my heart and love both of them so I can't refuse any one of them. What I must do?

Love Guru Please suggest me. I don't want to hurt any of one. I know this is critical but you may solve."

I can suggest be friend for both of them. person who will be with you for long time get married with him. So for the moment be friend for both of them.
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, December 27, 2010
Hi Gauransh,
"do u remember me love guru?? b4 i used to ask u about my problems everyday for 1week or smthing.....i am gauransh if u remember...the girl i used to tok about..is now familiar with me i meaqn she is getting close with me now a days...n while she toks to me she plays wid her hair...i've heard dat wen girl plays with her hair while talking to sm guy she likes him...is dis true??? she does dis wid two or three guys and as i said she likes to flirt a lot...so does she like me little or is der ne chance of making her love me..??? plzz help..last tym i wont irritate u here further as i was doing till now...please help ....reply soon"

First of all you are not irritating me. Its here I am to help you all.smilies/smiley.gif
Playing with her hair does not mean she loves you. Girls play with hair when she get confused what she is doing. But you can test her what she want from you. Ask her for outing alone not with any other friend. if she agree it means she want to come near to you. Then this is the best time you can propose her.

Don't wait for long time to propose.smilies/smiley.gif Good Luck my friend.
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, December 27, 2010
"Problem : Problem : m in great confusn love guru... i was in relationship with a gal for 2 months....v went for datings nd talkd whole nyt on phones..bt 1 day she broke up with me saying that she cant trust me... i try to convince her bt she didnt...now after approx 1 month of our breakup she call me and said that she is sorry for what she did with me n offer me to b her frnd....i love her a lot n accepted her friendship offer... bt i want her to love me as she did before...what shud i do ?? my problems are 1. plz suggest k shud i remain her frnd OR break the frndship.. 2. do she still loves me or just passing time with me ?? 3. How shud i approach her as her friend ??? 4. how do i know k she loves me ?? 5. how can i convince her to love me as she did before ??? plzzzz love guru g m very tensed about this matter..plzz help me..reply me soon..
plzzzzzz plzzz plzzz help me guru g.......i love her "

Hi sunil,

You must meet her not only telephonic conversation. Go with her for dating and she whats her reaction. Meeting with her frequently you may get your questions answers.

Thanks,
Love Guru
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confused
written by Gauransh, December 27, 2010
do u remember me love guru?? b4 i used to ask u about my problems everyday for 1week or smthing.....i am gauransh if u remember...the girl i used to tok about..is now familiar with me i meaqn she is getting close with me now a days...n while she toks to me she plays wid her hair...i've heard dat wen girl plays with her hair while talking to sm guy she likes him...is dis true??? she does dis wid two or three guys and as i said she likes to flirt a lot...so does she like me little or is der ne chance of making her love me..??? plzz help..last tym i wont irritate u here further as i was doing till now...please help ....reply soon
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Congused guru g.....
written by Sunil, December 20, 2010
Problem : Problem : m in great confusn love guru... i was in relationship with a gal for 2 months....v went for datings nd talkd whole nyt on phones..bt 1 day she broke up with me saying that she cant trust me... i try to convince her bt she didnt...now after approx 1 month of our breakup she call me and said that she is sorry for what she did with me n offer me to b her frnd....i love her a lot n accepted her friendship offer... bt i want her to love me as she did before...what shud i do ?? my problems are 1. plz suggest k shud i remain her frnd OR break the frndship.. 2. do she still loves me or just passing time with me ?? 3. How shud i approach her as her friend ??? 4. how do i know k she loves me ?? 5. how can i convince her to love me as she did before ??? plzzzz love guru g m very tensed about this matter..plzz help me..reply me soon..
plzzzzzz plzzz plzzz help me guru g.......i love her
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I love 2 boy and I am not able to decide with whom I must go
written by Sonali, December 16, 2010
Hi Loveguru,

I have 2 friends and I love both of them. You can say both are my 2 part of my heart. They both love me a lot. Even they both proposed me. I said both of them my problems and they are 2 confused and they both want me and can do anything for me. They both have one answer I want to leave for you. As I said they both are 2 part of my heart and love both of them so I can't refuse any one of them. What I must do?

Love Guru Please suggest me. I don't want to hurt any of one. I know this is critical but you may solve.
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, December 03, 2010
Hi Naresh,

" hii my name is naresh i has a problem to communicate with a girl whom i love she is a north indian girl and im a south indian and she is not intrested in talking to strangers and she is a homely girl but i love her i did not tried to talk with her because of rejection what should i do which way i should communicate with her.... call me 9640461999 help me out anyone can make suggesion im 20yr and she is 18 "

Go through my this article. Hope your answer is there. http://www.humtumlove.com/story/story/92.html
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i has a problem to contact with her
written by naresh, December 03, 2010
hii my name is naresh i has a problem to communicate with a girl whom i love she is a north indian girl and im a south indian and she is not intrested in talking to strangers and she is a homely girl but i love her i did not tried to talk with her because of rejection what should i do which way i should communicate with her.... call me 9640461999 help me out anyone can make suggesion im 20yr and she is 18
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, December 01, 2010
"hello i m turning 22 years old n till now i never got a bf in my life all my frds keep teasing me that i dont hve boyfrd . all my frds have boy frds but not me . pls tell me the tips to attract boys in my side . i feel so lonely in pain unhappy sad when i see my gurlfrds hsving there boy frds n cuming for the party n all omg i feeel lonely ..... i m tired i dont noe how to find a guy for my self i got proposes from many guys but i dont like them at all the guy which i love him he doesnt like m plsssssssssssssssssssss HELP Meeeeeeeeeeee pls i beg u plsss"

At first I want to say you don't get upset if you believe in GOD. God set partner for every person. And its all depends on time. My suggestion make friendship with boys looks is not a matter see the inner looks how much gentle man he is ? If boys are proposing you don't refuse them first understand that guy.

You can go through this to find your life partner.
http://www.humtumlove.com/component/jmylife/story/94.html
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, December 01, 2010
"i am doctor and lecturer in medical college. i am 29 yr old. last yr i went for an interview to another city while coming back to home after interview i saw a girl in the bus in which i was traveling, i fall in love with her after seeing her at first sight. and in the whole journey about 10 hours most of the time she is talking on the phone regarding subject and exam and i was hearing the conversation , i came to know that where i have given interview she is studying there. but i didnt told her, and when journey finished i note down the address where is left the bus . after reaching home i told my parents about the girl.and after one month i got the call letter form the college for joining. and when i joined i got her subject to teach. finally i came to know that she is in same cast bhrahmins. and slowly i got her number and we started talking,

finally we fall in love and she told to her parents and her parents has given call to me for marriage. her parents visited my home and meet my parents, everything was going good. and marriage is fixed for next year.

and several time i asked that girl ki if u have any past than please tell me. after some days i came to know about she had boyfriend and 3-4 other boy friend in tha past . when i asked her she deny everything but when i pressurizes her she accepted. means she had hide everything form me for such a long time. and when i came to know she was saying i m not understanding

now m on bed had road accident 7 month back. we are still in contact with each other, and she use to call me and tell that i'll support u . and i love you. suddenly something happen now her relatives are not agreeing for merriage becausse of accident. but o'll be ok with in few month. and after accident she had changed her mood, she said each time if you 'll be ok and walk properly than i'll marry u otherwise i'll not. because my parents will not allow me

u tell me what i do? shell i wait me to recover or tell her to leave me or i leave her,"

You must wait to recover and don't broke from inside. Every person is having good days and bad days. If you don't face bad days you can't determine who are good and who is bad in your life.
Wait to recover yourself. If she is good and love you she will wait for you. One more thing past is past don't make your present days bad thinking of past days.
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HELP ME TO FIND A BOY FRIEND
written by kg, November 25, 2010
hello i m turning 22 years old n till now i never got a bf in my life all my frds keep teasing me that i dont hve boyfrd . all my frds have boy frds but not me . pls tell me the tips to attract boys in my side . i feel so lonely in pain unhappy sad when i see my gurlfrds hsving there boy frds n cuming for the party n all omg i feeel lonely ..... i m tired i dont noe how to find a guy for my self i got proposes from many guys but i dont like them at all the guy which i love him he doesnt like m plsssssssssssssssssssss HELP Meeeeeeeeeeee pls i beg u plsss smilies/sad.gif smilies/sad.gif smilies/sad.gif
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, November 25, 2010
"m in great confusn love guru... i was in relationship with a gal for 2 months....she broke up with me saying that she cant trust me... i try a lot to convince her bt she didnt...now after approx 1 month of our breakup she call me and said that she is sorry for what she did with me n offer me to b her frnd....i love her a lot n accepted her friendship offer... bt i want her to love me as she did before...what shud i do ?? shud i remain her frnd or break the frndship.........plzz help guru g "

Friendship is the seed of love. so breaking friendship means your are just refusing to love her. Better you wait for sometime and let her understand how much you love her. Once she realize she will come back to you as a true love.
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, November 25, 2010
"i am in 11 class and falled in love with 10 class love very deeply
i didn't anything about her nor she..
i wan't to make relatinship with her coz i am madly in love with her


plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
help me or i will become mad....
plzzzzzzzzzz "

Go to her and tell her your feelings. But before that realize yourself that is love or infatuation.
choice.amit
should i leave her or be with her
written by choice.amit, November 15, 2010
hi love guru
i am doctor and lecturer in medical college. i am 29 yr old. last yr i went for an interview to another city while coming back to home after interview i saw a girl in the bus in which i was traveling, i fall in love with her after seeing her at first sight. and in the whole journey about 10 hours most of the time she is talking on the phone regarding subject and exam and i was hearing the conversation , i came to know that where i have given interview she is studying there. but i didnt told her, and when journey finished i note down the address where is left the bus . after reaching home i told my parents about the girl.and after one month i got the call letter form the college for joining. and when i joined i got her subject to teach. finally i came to know that she is in same cast bhrahmins. and slowly i got her number and we started talking,

finally we fall in love and she told to her parents and her parents has given call to me for marriage. her parents visited my home and meet my parents, everything was going good. and marriage is fixed for next year.

and several time i asked that girl ki if u have any past than please tell me. after some days i came to know about she had boyfriend and 3-4 other boy friend in tha past . when i asked her she deny everything but when i pressurizes her she accepted. means she had hide everything form me for such a long time. and when i came to know she was saying i m not understanding

now m on bed had road accident 7 month back. we are still in contact with each other, and she use to call me and tell that i'll support u . and i love you. suddenly something happen now her relatives are not agreeing for merriage becausse of accident. but o'll be ok with in few month. and after accident she had changed her mood, she said each time if you 'll be ok and walk properly than i'll marry u otherwise i'll not. because my parents will not allow me

u tell me what i do? shell i wait me to recover or tell her to leave me or i leave her,
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Congused guru g.....
written by Prince, November 15, 2010
m in great confusn love guru... i was in relationship with a gal for 2 months....she broke up with me saying that she cant trust me... i try a lot to convince her bt she didnt...now after approx 1 month of our breakup she call me and said that she is sorry for what she did with me n offer me to b her frnd....i love her a lot n accepted her friendship offer... bt i want her to love me as she did before...what shud i do ?? shud i remain her frnd or break the frndship.........plzz help guru g
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confusion about love
written by Apoorv Jain, November 13, 2010
hi love guru,

i am in 11 class and falled in love with 10 class love very deeply
i didn't anything about her nor she..
i wan't to make relatinship with her coz i am madly in love with her


plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
help me or i will become mad....
plzzzzzzzzzz
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, November 09, 2010
Hi Jassi,

"dear love guru ,my problem is different..

sir in class 10th i am in love with a girl who study with me.but due to some reason i came to different city after 10th.now after 4 year i find that girl on orkut.

i chat with her,but she does not able to recognise me.

sir i love her very much ,but
does not what she feel about me.

know tell me what i do?

plz help me.... "

You must talk to her like friend and one day share everything about your feeling to her. If she don't have any true love she will accept you then and there.
You must be loyal to her while you are doing friendship to her. There is 4 years you are not in touch with her many good and bad things happened to her life. You must know everything about her before you propose her so she should not get hurted from you.
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plz help me!
written by Jassi, November 07, 2010
dear love guru ,my problem is different..

sir in class 10th i am in love with a girl who study with me.but due to some reason i came to different city after 10th.now after 4 year i find that girl on orkut.

i chat with her,but she does not able to recognise me.

sir i love her very much ,but
does not what she feel about me.

know tell me what i do?

plz help me....
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, October 20, 2010
Hi mukesh mishra,
"my girl-friend cheated me and done breakup"
If you really love her you can accept her at any condition. She fell better with Jigar right now and if you pressure her she will not understand. You know Jigar is taking advantage and even you said her. But she don't want to listen to you?

Anyway this always happen girls attracts very easily with bad things. But if you really love her go to her and make her understand hope she may understand.
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my girl-friend cheated me and done breakup
written by mukesh mishra', October 12, 2010
hello love-guru plz help me.
I have full 11 months relation with my. I had purpose her on 3 november 2010, 1st she rejected my purposel and after 3 days on 6th november she accepted me, we both r in same school and in same class. We start go for outing,hotel,movies in my friend car. She stared calling at home whenever she is along With in 1 month we have sex but i had not fuck her. I tried but she refuse that that time. whenever meet we huge each other. We promise each other hat we will always for each other. She always talking me about our future. I m always giving her a expensive gift and she never but i don't care abot that i not need gift from her i only need her support. I m is a sons of a rich person my father ia having a three factory and two hotels, That she knows. One valentine days i gave her a gift at school and i as for my gift just for fun she tolled she is going to give me very nice gift she called me at home and we that sexual intercousw or wild dat that day tolled me that she in mood to do this all that i spend 8 hours with her on his bed. That day i fucl her. Fom that day whenever is call she started kissing me removing my clothes and her undergarments and she starts. After some days in march our cbse board exams came. We not meet ever other for 1 month but we just meet too each on center. After exam we i had held a party on hotel with swimming pool party my and her many friends came in that party many r couples. We have a alots fun that days and next days i taken all friend to movie she is also there and we go meet each daily at evening in coffee cafe at time 6-7pm at 15 april gone to her village and i also moved to mumbai to my father and mother. Currently i m living in gujarat with my mama-mami from last 3 year dude to security reason i mis only single child of my parent. But we have talk to each daily some day we talk each other full night. Than after some days on 28 march our results came she pass out with 58% and i got compartment in maths at sit for re-exams and got 69%. Due to poor my father stop my pocket money my cars key. Till that school started and she continue in same school fom commerce i m late 1 month due to compartment and i tried in another engeneeeing diploma collage in our area. With in this all we r maintaning long distance relationship from last 6 month. But in this all we both r honest for each other.but from 1 month i join my collage so i got my mobile. And so we talk to each for long time. But on 30 september she gone for state level volley ball match. From that day is started talking with about a boy jigar which in her tution. She always telling me about him. On 2nd october she is telling me that after completing 12th i m going to usa i tolled its ok on that night we talk to each other long time talking about our past time. She tolled me when dear u will meet me i want to tell u a something. I tolled its ok i will meet u as soon as i will get the my car bye.but on next due some gone mumbai and i forgot my mobile at home.next day when i had called she scooled on me and u time to call me i tried to tell her the reason but she not ready to listen and she never reacted with me like this . I called her after and that she tolled i don't want to continue with u. I m fully surprise. After i calling her and she is not receiving my no or if she receive is abuse. Then came in contact with her all friend then came to known that she got a 2 purposel one from his classmate and another from jigar and i investgated on this then came to no that she is having affair with jigar from last 15 day on 6th i meet to jigar and his evertthing. He tolled me i had purpose her and at time accepted me but tolled her first think about ur present boyfriend but she not and asked to jigar wat u r now going to with r u serious he tolled me no, i m just going use her and he had done with in 10 days she called him in her home they wild dat i m really up-set from one week now jigar and his fully group is going to use her and i want to save her from this all. She is spoiling her future with having affairs with jigar. She know that jigar is playboy and what he is going do with her. I inform everything about jigar and vidhi affair and about jigar what jigar is going to do with her to her mom. But i had not tolled them about our affair. want to save her i m dam serious about.please give some advise
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, October 08, 2010
"Me gauransh again........
I followed your steps u suggested,like take her to movie,hotel e.t.c i did it from last time to this time as i am in tenth and X is also i was not able to do dat of taking her out much but still i handled it....wat i am saying is....i am not understanding she likes me or gets irritated by me....because today i came from my class and she was der with two other frnds she was flirting wid one guyfor tym pass dat i dint mind but wen i saw the time i had to go and said bye n i went but while i was walking to go home she said "HAASH FINALLY WENT!!" wat did dis exactly mean ????? does she get irritated thinking dat i like her and always try to get her evn thought i don show dat m trying to get her but does she think dat my only aim is to get her and by thinking dis does she get irritated?????????????? plzz answer...... "

Be fun to hang around with, easy to laugh with, and be outgoing. Just don't be full of yourself. A girl may like an overly cocky guy at first, but eventually, she will find it selfish. Don't try to impress everyone - girls like humble guys. At the same time, a sense of humor is always good. Girls love it when guys can make them laugh.
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???? WaT to do ????
written by Gauransh, October 08, 2010
Hello Love guru,
Me gauransh again........
I followed your steps u suggested,like take her to movie,hotel e.t.c i did it from last time to this time as i am in tenth and X is also i was not able to do dat of taking her out much but still i handled it....wat i am saying is....i am not understanding she likes me or gets irritated by me....because today i came from my class and she was der with two other frnds she was flirting wid one guyfor tym pass dat i dint mind but wen i saw the time i had to go and said bye n i went but while i was walking to go home she said "HAASH FINALLY WENT!!" wat did dis exactly mean ????? does she get irritated thinking dat i like her and always try to get her evn thought i don show dat m trying to get her but does she think dat my only aim is to get her and by thinking dis does she get irritated?????????????? plzz answer......
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, September 27, 2010
"i m going through a great mental disturbance and depression as my girl left me first i cheated him and want her to go away from my life but she was not ready at that time but now she is refused to continue relationship i m shivering while writting this pls suggest me to get her back i really love her. "

Hi shahrukhanubhav,

This is good you understand you have done wrong. But once you confess your wrong and say to a girl to come back again she will not come back like that way.
You need work hard a lot for this. At first say sorry to her and make her your friend only. Go for outing. She will refuse intially but take advantage while she is going out of home. Don't jump and say hi. You need to keep your patiance as well your behaviour must be very polite to get her back.
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, September 27, 2010
"I was in relationship with a gal since last 2 months...she too loved me..we went on datings n talked on phone for whole nyts..bt suddenly one day she told me that i didnt trusted her n she decided not to b in relationship with me any more...at this i got angry n abused her ...she too get angry with me now n told me not to interfair in her lyf anymore...she dont even receive my calls n not ready to talk with me ....she warned me that if i ever try to call her or talk to her she will tell the whole matter to her mother ...i dont want my family to know about all this....i dont know what to do now..she is my class mate.....love guru plzz help me as i love her a lot n dont wanna lose her... "

Hi Gurpreet Singh Parmar,

You go to her and ask her to be friend with you. At first you need to get her trust for you. Then only you can move for anyother thing.Get a gift for her and propose her for friendship hope that will help you.
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, September 27, 2010
"sir i was in love wth agirl 4 last 7 months.she also loved me a lot but few days before she told me that our marriage do not seems to be possible and left me.i love her too much and i cant live without her.her parents also know abt our affair now.plz suggest me what should i do now so that she come back to me nd we must get married.plz plz plz plz help me "

Hi ajit nd swapna,

Ask her why "marriage do not seems to be possible"? You need to know the question first and then need to find the answer so you need to understand why this is not happen.
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, September 27, 2010
"I was in relationship with a girl since last 3 months..i loved her a lot ,, she too loved me...bt suddenly one day she said that she didnt trust me n didnt want to b in relationship with me anymore...at this i got angry and abused her saying her a cheap girl...i love her a lot and cant live without her...now she even reject my calls n told me not to interfair in her lyf anymore...plzzz suggest me what to do....she is my class-mate...i cant control my feelings...love guru plz help me"

Hi shera_jakhu,

You go to her and say sorry to her And say will never ever repeat the same. This is my first and last mistake. Hope this will help.
shahrukhanubhav
get ex back
written by shahrukhanubhav, September 26, 2010
she is my class mate we are in same batch every day i saw her face which makes me feel more depressing kindly suggest me wat to do knw pls love guru save my love
shahrukhanubhav
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written by shahrukhanubhav, September 26, 2010
hello love guru ,
i m going through a great mental disturbance and depression as my girl left me first i cheated him and want her to go away from my life but she was not ready at that time but now she is refused to continue relationship i m shivering while writting this pls suggest me to get her back i really love her.
www.gurpreet.singh.parmar
Break up
written by www.gurpreet.singh.parmar, September 24, 2010
I was in relationship with a gal since last 2 months...she too loved me..we went on datings n talked on phone for whole nyts..bt suddenly one day she told me that i didnt trusted her n she decided not to b in relationship with me any more...at this i got angry n abused her ...she too get angry with me now n told me not to interfair in her lyf anymore...she dont even receive my calls n not ready to talk with me ....she warned me that if i ever try to call her or talk to her she will tell the whole matter to her mother ...i dont want my family to know about all this....i dont know what to do now..she is my class mate.....love guru plzz help me as i love her a lot n dont wanna lose her...
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break up
written by ajit nd swapna, September 23, 2010
sir i was in love wth agirl 4 last 7 months.she also loved me a lot but few days before she told me that our marriage do not seems to be possible and left me.i love her too much and i cant live without her.her parents also know abt our affair now.plz suggest me what should i do now so that she come back to me nd we must get married.plz plz plz plz help me
www.shera_jakhu
PLZ help me !!!!
written by www.shera_jakhu, September 23, 2010
I was in relationship with a girl since last 3 months..i loved her a lot ,, she too loved me...bt suddenly one day she said that she didnt trust me n didnt want to b in relationship with me anymore...at this i got angry and abused her saying her a cheap girl...i love her a lot and cant live without her...now she even reject my calls n told me not to interfair in her lyf anymore...plzzz suggest me what to do....she is my class-mate...i cant control my feelings...love guru plz help me
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, September 22, 2010
hi Gauransh,

"hello love guru,
One last question is dat u told to take her to club or restaurant but she will probably not be ready if it is only her and me so do u think it's ok if a third person is also there wid both of us???"

Instead of going to club go for movie and restaurant. Don't take any third person then her focus on you will be less. So better go alone with her only..
bye take care best of luck.smilies/smiley.gif
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written by Gauransh, September 22, 2010
hello love guru,
One last question is dat u told to take her to club or restaurant but she will probably not be ready if it is only her and me so do u think it's ok if a third person is also there wid both of us???
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written by gauransh, September 21, 2010
Hey...thanks a lot love guru, i will definately do wat u said and follow ur steps...Thanks once again...
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, September 21, 2010
"Hello love guru,
Me gauransh....
Wat i want to say is i have been trying to do and follow wat u said....i knw it has been a very short time but still wat i observed is she always busy in talking and flirting with other guys on phone...she does'nt even realise my presence properly i guess...ya but she cares little about me that i will get jealous....so wat i want to ask is doesh she like me or not??? i have almost given u the full of her behaviour biodata of how she behaves with me so now i want to know that wat do u think does she like me or not??? or atleast is there any chance of making her love me or doesh she like me little bit also??? please answer...i request.......PLEASE..."

gauransh what ever the girl character but from inside all girl are soft hurted and always try to search partner.

Honest
Brushing girls simply don't like
Your frequent communication will realize her that you are caring her.
As I said before Girls like to get gift

Mix things up. Go to a new restaurant, try a new nightclub or go to a new part of town. Even if you both end up hating it, it's an experience you can share and that's what it's all about isn't it? Creating memories together. Surprise them by doing something offbeat--think less maudlin and more personal. This includes anything from racing them to your walking destination, dancing without music, or even bringing them a tub of LEGO and encouraging their immediate use. You two should grow to be comfortable with each other, and do things together without self-consciousness. Ideally, they should never feel stupid around you for wanting or doing a particular thing. Step out of your comfort zone. Sometimes, in order to get things going, you need to be the one to step out of the comfort zone.

So there is no problem whether girl is flirting right now. That she is enjoying her life. But once she fall in love she will simply loyal to her partner.

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help me....plz...
written by Gauransh, September 20, 2010
Hello love guru,
Me gauransh....
Wat i want to say is i have been trying to do and follow wat u said....i knw it has been a very short time but still wat i observed is she always busy in talking and flirting with other guys on phone...she does'nt even realise my presence properly i guess...ya but she cares little about me that i will get jealous....so wat i want to ask is doesh she like me or not??? i have almost given u the full of her behaviour biodata of how she behaves with me so now i want to know that wat do u think does she like me or not??? or atleast is there any chance of making her love me or doesh she like me little bit also??? please answer...i request.......PLEASE...
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she's different...
written by Gauransh, September 17, 2010
Hello Love guru,
Me Gauransh again......
I would like to tell u dat X is a type of girl who is not girlish........she is a tomboy......she is a girl but a one who is similar to a boy, meaning the habbits .............so wat m saying is she is a tomboy so still should i follow the asme things or steps u've mentioned in previous question??? and she is also the one who tells me on face watever i do is wrong or rite?? so should i still follow the same steps??? on smthing different..??..
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, September 15, 2010
"Hello love guru....me gauransh again.........i wna ask smthing more.......written below

I am damn sure she's not trying to make me jealous.........she really likes dat guy.......but i am more important to her but she just thinks dat she likes dat guy really..........so how can i make her understand my importance for eg by saying something or by doing something or indirectly telling her........???? but she's not trying to do the same for sure so wat should i do??? how can i make her realise my importance...........

n thanx for ur advice, whoever u r.....u r great....!!!...........wil u get bored if i keep on telling u abt d incidents once a week or twice i hope it wont irritate u??? atleast reply for this question last tym..... "

First of all I like to say you are not disturbing I am here to try help you like people so you are not disturbing smilies/smiley.gif

Ok In your daily routine add her in your priority list. Do something which will help you to meet with her everyday. Like Suppose if she is in college while she is coming from college drop her to her house.
Or anyhow try to give any excuse and meet her daily. once in a week take her to movie. Be very decent while you are watching movie. After movie take her to some good restaurant talk with her with different things except you love her don't ping every time.
For her knowing you is very important once that is done I will guide you for the next step. Let me know if you need anything more. Don't force her if she is not going out with you. But try "If you think you can bring God in you then there is nothing impossible to get your loving person." Remember there is lots of difficulties waiting for you but you should be sticky with your decision all you can overcome. Don't hamper your personal life. And don't get mad play very coolly you will win...
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written by Gauransh, September 15, 2010
Hello love guru....me gauransh again.........i wna ask smthing more.......written below

I am damn sure she's not trying to make me jealous.........she really likes dat guy.......but i am more important to her but she just thinks dat she likes dat guy really..........so how can i make her understand my importance for eg by saying something or by doing something or indirectly telling her........???? but she's not trying to do the same for sure so wat should i do??? how can i make her realise my importance...........

n thanx for ur advice, whoever u r.....u r great....!!!...........wil u get bored if i keep on telling u abt d incidents once a week or twice i hope it wont irritate u??? atleast reply for this question last tym.....
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little more help
written by Gauransh, September 15, 2010
i am damn sure she's not trying to make me jealous.........she really likes dat guy.......but i am more important to her but she just thinks dat she likes dat guy really..........so how can i make her understand my importance for eg by saying something or by doing something or indirectly telling her........???? but she's not trying to do the same for sure so wat should i do??? how can i make her realise my importance...........

n thanx for ur advice, whoever u r.....u r great....!!!...........wil u get bored if i keep on telling u abt d incidents once a week or twice i hope it wont irritate u??? atleast reply for this question last tym.....
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, September 14, 2010
"I love dis girl named X, we have been together for 15 yrs and i am now my age is 15 yrs 3 months so we have been toghether from wen we were born because of our family,at a certain age i started loving her but i dint knw abt her so i made a plan to make her jealous and got some other girl's photo and told to X dat i lyk her..........she was damn jealous i dint understand but after few years she herself told me dat she liked me, told me dis wen i proposed her,she said dat she is such a nut neither i proposed her dat tym nor she den i still luved her, but she dint she said no wen i proposed her i still luved her den another guy came into picture she atarted liking him she proposed him den dey broke up.....den dey patched up.....den again broke up........i made another plan.......X was at my friends house i told my friend to come onlyn and i told my friend some how get her to see wat i am typing...........my friend did.......den i typed dat i like dis girl and i luv her now i forgot X and all i wrote all dis............she again began to get jealous dis tym it cud be seen dat she's jealous.............damn jealous!!.......i send her a msg saying dat u left me, u said no! u dint lyk me now we'l have a new start n lets b frnds....dis was a kind of proposal and she said dat u r late u must have asked me sm tym b4 den i wud hv said yes..smilies/sad.gif...and tym passed evn wen ever i proposed her she said no but she still considers me as her best frnd she tells me every thing.......yesterday she told me dat she was chatting on phone wid dat guy till 4:30 and she called him up and she said i miss u and all blah blah.....do wat my question is she gets kind of jealousy wen i like another girl or i speak abt another girl but she thinks dat she likes dat guy but dat is just puppy love for sure so how to make her realise my importance and how much i luv her and wen exactly to propose her.......and how to attract her towards me.....????????? plzz answer i beg in front of u and if possible cani hace ur phone number.....????? "

Hi Gauransh,

I like to suggest you there is no time limit in love when you will propose your loving partner. But you must understand that is your true love.This is good sign that she is jealous when you are trying to show her that you are going to engage with someone else. May be she is also trying to do same. Go for outing with her at some romantic place and express your felling. And obviously add this word too "If you don't love me. I will love you forever. Girls likes to listen this sentence and they judge a boy from this sentence."
Girls do not run how rich you are run how loving you are. At the age of her 60 do you love her same as you are feeling at present. If you can make her understand this to her. I promise she is yours.

I am really very sorry Gauransh you can get the suggestion from here only.My response will be always quick for you all.


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i beg u plz help me.......
written by Gauransh, September 14, 2010
hello love guru,
I love dis girl named X, we have been together for 15 yrs and i am now my age is 15 yrs 3 months so we have been toghether from wen we were born because of our family,at a certain age i started loving her but i dint knw abt her so i made a plan to make her jealous and got some other girl's photo and told to X dat i lyk her..........she was damn jealous i dint understand but after few years she herself told me dat she liked me, told me dis wen i proposed her,she said dat she is such a nut neither i proposed her dat tym nor she den i still luved her, but she dint she said no wen i proposed her i still luved her den another guy came into picture she atarted liking him she proposed him den dey broke up.....den dey patched up.....den again broke up........i made another plan.......X was at my friends house i told my friend to come onlyn and i told my friend some how get her to see wat i am typing...........my friend did.......den i typed dat i like dis girl and i luv her now i forgot X and all i wrote all dis............she again began to get jealous dis tym it cud be seen dat she's jealous.............damn jealous!!.......i send her a msg saying dat u left me, u said no! u dint lyk me now we'l have a new start n lets b frnds....dis was a kind of proposal and she said dat u r late u must have asked me sm tym b4 den i wud hv said yes..smilies/sad.gif...and tym passed evn wen ever i proposed her she said no but she still considers me as her best frnd she tells me every thing.......yesterday she told me dat she was chatting on phone wid dat guy till 4:30 and she called him up and she said i miss u and all blah blah.....do wat my question is she gets kind of jealousy wen i like another girl or i speak abt another girl but she thinks dat she likes dat guy but dat is just puppy love for sure so how to make her realise my importance and how much i luv her and wen exactly to propose her.......and how to attract her towards me.....????????? plzz answer i beg in front of u and if possible cani hace ur phone number.....?????
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, September 10, 2010
"hii love guru
m in big problem... me n my boyfriend was happy with our relationship thn all of a sudden his behaviour changed n i dont no y? after 1 month of dis, one day suddenly he mailed me tht he has no more feelings for me n said tht i had nvr cared for him which is nt so true... i gt really depressed after reading it. n called him n told him tht if u think like tht so its better tht v broke up... n i wont disturb u ever again n dis is ma last call...
now d problem is tht i love him n i want him back... i jus can't live without him...
plzzz suggest sumthing by which i cud get him back...
please... "

I will suggest better you meet him and talk to him. Whether he is felling same like you. If this is true love for both of you. This means He is also facing same problem..

poojaarora.hatelove
help me plzzz
written by P A, September 09, 2010
hii love guru
m in big problem... me n my boyfriend was happy with our relationship thn all of a sudden his behaviour changed n i dont no y? after 1 month of dis, one day suddenly he mailed me tht he has no more feelings for me n said tht i had nvr cared for him which is nt so true... i gt really depressed after reading it. n called him n told him tht if u think like tht so its better tht v broke up... n i wont disturb u ever again n dis is ma last call...
now d problem is tht i love him n i want him back... i jus can't live without him...
plzzz suggest sumthing by which i cud get him back...
please...
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, September 04, 2010
Hi inder_inder84,

"im a very flirty guy, but i think this time i love one girl.we have been messaging to each other//she is in my company where i work//but we dont get chance to meet//so i asked her to meet me on her off// but she refused//what shud i do//i really like her"

Inder flirting = hurting So from today don't do that. Human should no hurt anyone.
Here is your solution. While she go out from office go with her. You will get some time to make her understand you are good guy then only she may listen to you anything.

Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, September 04, 2010
Hi Surender,
"Hello loveguru,
On this Rakhi also she sent me Rakhi. I followed your suggestion and tried to found her. After a month I found her friend on Orkut. She told me that she is in Bhopal. She is doing MBA there. I gave her friend my e-mail address to give her. Today she will give me her mail address. What should I tell her now ??? Should I directly say her that I love her ? please give me your precious suggestion.
here is my last post- "

Human being is only the creature who can make any impossible to possible. I will suggest don't burst out your love right now. As she is living far far away from you it is always hard to make understand your feeling but not impossible. Phone or by email try to make her understand your feeling. And then say "I love you"...
Remember if today you miss her you will never get her so try your best level to get your love. Life is one and precious.
inder_inder84
love
written by inder_inder84, September 03, 2010
hi

im a very flirty guy, but i think this time i love one girl.we have been messaging to each other//she is in my company where i work//but we dont get chance to meet//so i asked her to meet me on her off// but she refused//what shud i do//i really like her
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What should I do now
written by Surendra, September 03, 2010
Hello loveguru,
On this Rakhi also she sent me Rakhi. I followed your suggestion and tried to found her. After a month I found her friend on Orkut. She told me that she is in Bhopal. She is doing MBA there. I gave her friend my e-mail address to give her. Today she will give me her mail address. What should I tell her now ??? Should I directly say her that I love her ? please give me your precious suggestion.
here is my last post-
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"Hello love guru,
I'm Surendra from M.P. I love a girl since my childhood. She tied me Rakhi 4 times. I don't know what she feel about me but she really takes care of me. Once my class-fellows told me MOTA and she fought with them. I couldn't tell her my feelings I always helped her in studies and other ways. She is now a student of MBA but her mother sends Rakhi every year. I really want to tell her about my feelings but I fear of rejection as she is more beautiful than Aishwarya Rai and I'm a fat boy. This was the only reason I never tell her about my feelings. I haven't seen her since last two years but I remember her every day, every second of my life. I don't like any girl apart from her. What should I do ? When she is in front of me I can't say anything. I lover her I need her I never saw her with lust. She is my first and really last love. my love is very innocent and Holy. I love her nature not her beauty I mentioned about her beauty to explain my situation. I just want to tell her that I love her. how can I do that Please...Please...Please...help."

You simply go to her and say her your feelings. Let me know what is happening then I can suggest you more. Love is more bigger then any other relation. Don't miss today train otherwise someday you will think only you loose the oppurtunity. Today is your day grab it.
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written by riyaa , August 19, 2010
hiiiiiiiii
dear am going around wid a guy n he said that he loves me alot but i caught him many times with someone else then he use to say ki u r ma love.wo sab to aise hi hai.....he even use to abuse me. whenever i sak him to meet me he call me at his frd's place .make relation n take money to me
n ask ki u r ma wife tum nhi karogi to kaun karega.....
tell me his not the rite guy na,,,,,
aur kya hai..............
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i think his not interested in me.......
written by riyaa , August 19, 2010
hiiiiiiiiiiplz help me................am going around wid a guy named sanju ,,,,,,,,,,,, wo tu mujhe bolta hai ki he loves me alot but uski bohat si grlfrds hai aur jab i caught him to he said ki u r ma jaan wo sab to aisa hi hai he also ingnoures me n jab mae naraz hoti hun to usko koi farak nhi parta nhi tell me mae kya karoooooosmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gifsmilies/cry.gif
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, August 18, 2010
"AM SHATTERED!! and want my ex back
Hello sir how you doing ..its a big work to solve others problems..Evn am called the love guru in my college but in my own relationship i fail to understand and i fail to understand my situation.
Sir am writing here all i can about my realtionship .After finishing writing i would anxiously wait for a reply.!!
sir i have been with the love of my life for 1.5 yrs and now just 3 months we broke up.
a little bit about my realtionship
"
we had a friendship of 6 mnths and then i proposed her and i got her in my life.For this girl who i love i am the first person she ever loved.!!she was very good.she is honest and loved me a lot.she ws fully committed.Bt i ws posesive and a little insecured but all that in the begining of the relationship.She ws everywhr in my life.At my home i let her meet my parents,an everyone whos been close to me.She ws a angel for me and my family.She respects my parents and used to love them and me like mad.But then sometimes we had fights on posesivenes ,insecurity and i am not mature in my realationship."
these things increased by time and now she left me all alone for 3 months.we broke up 2 months back.
initialy after the break up she dint want to talk to me and ignored my calls for 2 or 3 days and then she said one night that she loves me and will love me for the entire life but she wont come to my life and marry me.!!
and since then we decided on being friends and we have been the bestest friends and she still cares for me and is always there for me and she gets impatient and calls me if i dissapear from the class for evn a minute.!!
shes always with me and she is still dependent on me for everything and wears clothes according to me.Everything is like our realtionship but wenever i asked her about our relationship and her coming back to my life she doesnt pay much attention and say that she "LET GOD DECIDE" and let time decide ..and wen i force her she says she ahs lost the respect for me in her life so if she comes she would come in my life when she gradually grows respect for me in her life.!!
We had romantic moments even after break up and she said that i wish i could come back to you ..but then i would do ol that i used to do before the break up.!!When i do anything good for her sometimes she says will you continue doing this for the entire life.!!But nw i got impatient and have acted too needy and have been desperately requested her to come back for me.!!but now i see she is geting away from me.!!
I dont know what should do..even if i agnore her or try not to talk to her she will call me..!everynight we still talk..everything is same ..but shes not there like she used to be..
LOVEGURU..sir i want your help ..pls advice me..i will keep updating you everyday..pls pls pls..i am not able to eat even and not go to gym..!!sir i really need your help and want her back pls..!!
I WANT her back..thats my decision..i just want an advice from you about our relationship..!!
thank you sir..any answer from you will be highly appreiated..!!!!"

Hi Bikram,

My suggestion don't force her to come back just love her.Care her like before. Make her understand you the only person who can take care of her throughout the life. Not from your mouth say from your attitude.


Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, August 18, 2010
"IS HE TIMEPASS WITH ME
HI M KARAM I HAVE BF FROM 7MONTHS WE TLK ONLY ON PHONE WE MEET ONLY ONCE A TIME HE SAID HE LOVE ME ALOT BUT HE CANNOT BE COMMITED WITH ME HE WANNA KNOW ME MORE N HE WANNA MEET ME MORE TIME BT I TOLD HIM EVERYTHING ABT ME ONCE A DAY I DRUNK N I COL HIM BCOZ HE IGNOR ME ALOT HE GOT ANGRY N SAID NW DNT EXPECT ME COMMITMENT NW AFTER THAT DAY HE TLK RUDLY N REARLY KOL ME N MSG ME I DNT WANNA LOOSE HIM HE DOING MBBS HE SAID DERE IZ AGE DIFFERENTS BCOZ M IN +2 N I CANNT UNDERSTAND WHAT HE WANT FROM ME "

If a guy get angered if you drunk this means this guy is truly love you. But in other case this guy is so much conservative. If you marry with him remember you have to loose a lot of freedom because this type of guys always try to keep restriction on there life partner. if you feel you can do yes then go with him.

Here is your tips for you.
Buy a sorry card and send to him write some romantic text there. Hope that will solve your problem...
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, August 18, 2010
"hanks for your reply. I tried to call him today just to say hi and see how is everything, but he didnt pick up. So maybe he doesnt want to talk smilies/sad.gif at least i know i tried, i have nothing to lose other than knowing i tried my best. Hopefully by me opening up the opportunity to talk, he will come and at least have a social conversation with me "
Hi chen,

Sorry for my late reply. Wait for someday and send him sms to his mobile that you need some conversation with him. Make him understand how much you like him. May be he will understand.

Ok here is a solution for you. try that. Show him that you also in love with someone else. He will understand that you are not following him he will then start to follow you. This one is very effective remember don't show much. I hope you can understand what I want to say. Don't worry I am sure your loving partner will come back and say sorry to you. Just give him a slap and then hug him....
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love
written by sant ram, August 18, 2010
Mai Mca student hu. Actually mai 1 bahut badi problem me hu. Mujhe 1 ladki se love ho gya hai jo meri hi class ki student hai. Mai kai baar koshish krta hu ki usse sab kuch keh du, but jab b kuch khne ki sochta hu to 1 ajib sa dar aa jata hai ki kahin wo mujhe reject na kar de. Mai use btaye bina reh b nahi skta aur keh b nahi pata. Plz aap hi mujhe koi advice do jisse ki mai use sub bta b du aur wo mujhe reject b na kare. Plz yaar help me. maine keh v diya bt kehti hai ho nhi skta mai mar jaunga plz help me
bolchal band hai mahino se
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AM SHATTERED!! and want my ex back
written by BikramDelhi, August 14, 2010
Hello sir how you doing ..its a big work to solve others problems..Evn am called the love guru in my college but in my own relationship i fail to understand and i fail to understand my situation.
Sir am writing here all i can about my realtionship .After finishing writing i would anxiously wait for a reply.!!
sir i have been with the love of my life for 1.5 yrs and now just 3 months we broke up.
a little bit about my realtionship
"
we had a friendship of 6 mnths and then i proposed her and i got her in my life.For this girl who i love i am the first person she ever loved.!!she was very good.she is honest and loved me a lot.she ws fully committed.Bt i ws posesive and a little insecured but all that in the begining of the relationship.She ws everywhr in my life.At my home i let her meet my parents,an everyone whos been close to me.She ws a angel for me and my family.She respects my parents and used to love them and me like mad.But then sometimes we had fights on posesivenes ,insecurity and i am not mature in my realationship."
these things increased by time and now she left me all alone for 3 months.we broke up 2 months back.
initialy after the break up she dint want to talk to me and ignored my calls for 2 or 3 days and then she said one night that she loves me and will love me for the entire life but she wont come to my life and marry me.!!
and since then we decided on being friends and we have been the bestest friends and she still cares for me and is always there for me and she gets impatient and calls me if i dissapear from the class for evn a minute.!!
shes always with me and she is still dependent on me for everything and wears clothes according to me.Everything is like our realtionship but wenever i asked her about our relationship and her coming back to my life she doesnt pay much attention and say that she "LET GOD DECIDE" and let time decide ..and wen i force her she says she ahs lost the respect for me in her life so if she comes she would come in my life when she gradually grows respect for me in her life.!!
We had romantic moments even after break up and she said that i wish i could come back to you ..but then i would do ol that i used to do before the break up.!!When i do anything good for her sometimes she says will you continue doing this for the entire life.!!But nw i got impatient and have acted too needy and have been desperately requested her to come back for me.!!but now i see she is geting away from me.!!
I dont know what should do..even if i agnore her or try not to talk to her she will call me..!everynight we still talk..everything is same ..but shes not there like she used to be..
LOVEGURU..sir i want your help ..pls advice me..i will keep updating you everyday..pls pls pls..i am not able to eat even and not go to gym..!!sir i really need your help and want her back pls..!!
I WANT her back..thats my decision..i just want an advice from you about our relationship..!!
thank you sir..any answer from you will be highly appreiated..!!!!
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IS HE TIMEPASS WITH ME
written by KARAM, August 14, 2010
HI M KARAM I HAVE BF FROM 7MONTHS WE TLK ONLY ON PHONE WE MEET ONLY ONCE A TIME HE SAID HE LOVE ME ALOT BUT HE CANNOT BE COMMITED WITH ME HE WANNA KNOW ME MORE N HE WANNA MEET ME MORE TIME BT I TOLD HIM EVERYTHING ABT ME ONCE A DAY I DRUNK N I COL HIM BCOZ HE IGNOR ME ALOT HE GOT ANGRY N SAID NW DNT EXPECT ME COMMITMENT NW AFTER THAT DAY HE TLK RUDLY N REARLY KOL ME N MSG ME I DNT WANNA LOOSE HIM HE DOING MBBS HE SAID DERE IZ AGE DIFFERENTS BCOZ M IN +2 N I CANNT UNDERSTAND WHAT HE WANT FROM ME
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written by chen, August 13, 2010
thanks for your reply. I tried to call him today just to say hi and see how is everything, but he didnt pick up. So maybe he doesnt want to talk smilies/sad.gif at least i know i tried, i have nothing to lose other than knowing i tried my best. Hopefully by me opening up the opportunity to talk, he will come and at least have a social conversation with me
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, August 12, 2010
"i have dated my bf for two and half yrs.just like any couple we fight etc, but we have the best time when we are together. I am chinese ( not as out going but i do have sense of humor etc), he is aussie and very out going, goes out clubbing with friends ( his friends are very open and sleep with random gals ) last week he told me he needs time off coz he needs to figure out wat he wants for his future, he feels like he is wasting my time. he is 22 and i am 21. He says he is young and we could be perfect for eachother, but he is just too young and have not decided if he can stick with one girl for the rest of his life yet.
I am really upset and we are very in love (but ppl tell me if he was in love with you he wont do this). Anyways i dont know what he will do now, i kept my distance to respect his decision even tho it is killing me inside. He said we can still see eachother as FRIENDS for the moment.
So i need suggestion on wat to do, i set myself a two week mark to go to his place to pick up my stuff and have look if we r or we not getting back. Is two weeks too short?or he just wants to break up with me complety and i shouldn't even bother ask him? "

Hi Chen,

7 life is less to take decision about this matter. 7 days is nothing. If you really believe from your core of heart that person is your true love. You don't stop to love him. You know when we pray to god why all good thing happen around us because god started to love us and started to care us. I am not saying your boyfriend is God don't take it in any other way. In every person one evil and God live. We just need to see god on that person automatically evil will go out and person will change. By birth no one is bad. Your bf is also having some soft corner for you. You just need to love from that point.
Building a relation takes long time.
Breaking a relation just a matter of second..

Let me know if you have any more question.
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, August 12, 2010
"Hey love guru.
Mai b.com 2nd ka student hu. Actually mai 1 bahut badi problem me hu. Mujhe 1 ladki se love ho gya hai jo meri hi class ki student hai. Mai kai baar koshish krta hu ki usse sab kuch keh du, but jab b kuch khne ki sochta hu to 1 ajib sa dar aa jata hai ki kahin wo mujhe reject na kar de. Mai use btaye bina reh b nahi skta aur keh b nahi pata. Plz aap hi mujhe koi advice do jisse ki mai use sub bta b du aur wo mujhe reject b na kare. Plz yaar help me."

Girls likes gift. Take a special gift for her and ask her for friendship with you. Once you become friend slowly slowly make her understand you are in love with her. That will solve your problem...
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, August 12, 2010
Hi Ajay,

"here ajay i wnat a suggestionfrom you that i like a girl from my childhood,,,, but she tied me rakhi once.... and my mouth got shut down... now i come to know she start liking some another guy,,, so i just keep hidden my feelings in my heart....coz she like me as brother and i love her too much that i will never tell her my feeling its better for me to cry whole lyf rather then to make her sad....... even i m ready to help her in getting her love... and she told me that she will come on rakhi to tie me a rakhi....and i cant refuse her coz i want to see her smiling all the time so shud i quit or shud i go far away from her because i know that the thing which will make her sad or cry i will never do and how can i do because i love her from my heart and truelove is second name sacrifice........so do u have any adfvice for my situation?"

If she love some one else you should not stop her. Instead be with her as a friend till the end...
"i love her from my heart and truelove is second name sacrifice" You are right Ajay.
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lost and confused
written by chen, August 11, 2010
hey:
i have dated my bf for two and half yrs.just like any couple we fight etc, but we have the best time when we are together. I am chinese ( not as out going but i do have sense of humor etc), he is aussie and very out going, goes out clubbing with friends ( his friends are very open and sleep with random gals ) last week he told me he needs time off coz he needs to figure out wat he wants for his future, he feels like he is wasting my time. he is 22 and i am 21. He says he is young and we could be perfect for eachother, but he is just too young and have not decided if he can stick with one girl for the rest of his life yet.
I am really upset and we are very in love (but ppl tell me if he was in love with you he wont do this). Anyways i dont know what he will do now, i kept my distance to respect his decision even tho it is killing me inside. He said we can still see eachother as FRIENDS for the moment.
So i need suggestion on wat to do, i set myself a two week mark to go to his place to pick up my stuff and have look if we r or we not getting back. Is two weeks too short?or he just wants to break up with me complety and i shouldn't even bother ask him?
thanks
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Love Problem
written by Shammi, August 06, 2010
Hey love guru.
Mai b.com 2nd ka student hu. Actually mai 1 bahut badi problem me hu. Mujhe 1 ladki se love ho gya hai jo meri hi class ki student hai. Mai kai baar koshish krta hu ki usse sab kuch keh du, but jab b kuch khne ki sochta hu to 1 ajib sa dar aa jata hai ki kahin wo mujhe reject na kar de. Mai use btaye bina reh b nahi skta aur keh b nahi pata. Plz aap hi mujhe koi advice do jisse ki mai use sub bta b du aur wo mujhe reject b na kare. Plz yaar help me.
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written by ajay, August 04, 2010
hi loveguru,,
here ajay i wnat a suggestionfrom you that i like a girl from my childhood,,,, but she tied me rakhi once.... and my mouth got shut down... now i come to know she start liking some another guy,,, so i just keep hidden my feelings in my heart....coz she like me as brother and i love her too much that i will never tell her my feeling its better for me to cry whole lyf rather then to make her sad....... even i m ready to help her in getting her love... and she told me that she will come on rakhi to tie me a rakhi....and i cant refuse her coz i want to see her smiling all the time so shud i quit or shud i go far away from her because i know that the thing which will make her sad or cry i will never do and how can i do because i love her from my heart and truelove is second name sacrifice........so do u have any adfvice for my situation?
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, July 31, 2010
"Hello love guru,
I'm Surendra from M.P. I love a girl since my childhood. She tied me Rakhi 4 times. I don't know what she feel about me but she really takes care of me. Once my class-fellows told me MOTA and she fought with them. I couldn't tell her my feelings I always helped her in studies and other ways. She is now a student of MBA but her mother sends Rakhi every year. I really want to tell her about my feelings but I fear of rejection as she is more beautiful than Aishwarya Rai and I'm a fat boy. This was the only reason I never tell her about my feelings. I haven't seen her since last two years but I remember her every day, every second of my life. I don't like any girl apart from her. What should I do ? When she is in front of me I can't say anything. I lover her I need her I never saw her with lust. She is my first and really last love. my love is very innocent and Holy. I love her nature not her beauty I mentioned about her beauty to explain my situation. I just want to tell her that I love her. how can I do that Please...Please...Please...help."

You simply go to her and say her your feelings. Let me know what is happening then I can suggest you more. Love is more bigger then any other relation. Don't miss today train otherwise someday you will think only you loose the oppurtunity. Today is your day grab it.
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How to say her
written by Surendra, July 30, 2010
Hello love guru,
I'm Surendra from M.P. I love a girl since my childhood. She tied me Rakhi 4 times. I don't know what she feel about me but she really takes care of me. Once my class-fellows told me MOTA and she fought with them. I couldn't tell her my feelings I always helped her in studies and other ways. She is now a student of MBA but her mother sends Rakhi every year. I really want to tell her about my feelings but I fear of rejection as she is more beautiful than Aishwarya Rai and I'm a fat boy. This was the only reason I never tell her about my feelings. I haven't seen her since last two years but I remember her every day, every second of my life. I don't like any girl apart from her. What should I do ? When she is in front of me I can't say anything. I lover her I need her I never saw her with lust. She is my first and really last love. my love is very innocent and Holy. I love her nature not her beauty I mentioned about her beauty to explain my situation. I just want to tell her that I love her. how can I do that Please...Please...Please...help.
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, July 27, 2010
Hi sameer shah,
"Love guru ji,,,kya us ladki ko mera aise msg bhejna pasand nahi aaya hoga,,,,i m very tensed ,,i dunno wat to do,,,,yaar maine to kabhi yeh socha bhi na tha ki,,,aisa ho jaye ga,,,,woh chandigarh mein rehti hai,,,,mein delhi,,,,bas net par hi baat hoti thee,,,,woh bhi nahi ho rahi,,,,,mann to kar raha hai ki uske sheher ja ke ,,,us se baat karu,,,,,lekin darr lagta hai ki kahin wo aur naraaj ho gayi to mera kya hoga,,,,i cant leave her,,,,she is the girl i loved,,,main use nahi kho sakta ,,,main nahi jaanta ki uska koi aur boyfrnd hai ki nahi,,,,agar hua to???,,,,main us ladke ki halat bhi kharaab kar sakta hu lekin karna nahi chahta,,,i dont want to hurt her in any way,,,i love her a lot,,,plzz help,,plz help,,."

Sammer When love is not madness, it is not love. Your thinking is obviosuly correct but on other side love is not only getting her. Love is sacrifice when you think your partner is happy with something else. I will not say don't try. Go to her and ask her why she is not talking to you. May be she will understand you. But remember if she is happy with anyone you must sacrifice that will be your true love.
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Broken heart
written by sameer shah, July 22, 2010
love guru ji,,,kya us ladki ko mera aise msg bhejna pasand nahi aaya hoga,,,,i m very tensed ,,i dunno wat to do,,,,yaar maine to kabhi yeh socha bhi na tha ki,,,aisa ho jaye ga,,,,woh chandigarh mein rehti hai,,,,mein delhi,,,,bas net par hi baat hoti thee,,,,woh bhi nahi ho rahi,,,,,mann to kar raha hai ki uske sheher ja ke ,,,us se baat karu,,,,,lekin darr lagta hai ki kahin wo aur naraaj ho gayi to mera kya hoga,,,,i cant leave her,,,,she is the girl i loved,,,main use nahi kho sakta ,,,main nahi jaanta ki uska koi aur boyfrnd hai ki nahi,,,,agar hua to???,,,,main us ladke ki halat bhi kharaab kar sakta hu lekin karna nahi chahta,,,i dont want to hurt her in any way,,,i love her a lot,,,plzz help,,plz help,,..
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broken heart
written by sameer shah, July 22, 2010
hi,,love guru,,,yaar boht tension mein hu,,,i loves a girl,,i dont know she lves me or not,,,but few days ago,i was drunk,,my mistake,,i sent her msg that i love her,,,n asked if she likes me or not??,,,,,since then she broke up all our relation,,on facebook,,orkut,,even she is not answering my phone calls,,,,wat to do ,,plz help me,,
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, July 22, 2010
Hi Govinda,

You are going through a teen age love. At first I suggest you think once whether that is your true love or a infatuation because at this age seeing a beautiful oposite sex everyone fall in love.

Best of my suggestion I can give you a very simple tips that may work. Buy a beautiful card for her with a show piece at this age girls love take gift like this from any boy. Express your love there and pass it to her. If she accept your gift then your love magic works make her friendship and after 1 - 2 month propose her. smilies/smiley.gif
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Love Connection.
written by Govinda Kumar Singh, July 22, 2010
I am a student of class -9. I want to love a girls of my classmate. Plaese give me tips to purpose her.
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, July 19, 2010
Hi Abhisheek,
"give me some idea to express her my feeling about her.voo ushi bus se travel karti hai jise main karta hoon. main usse dekhne ke baad usse kuch bolhi nahi pata bas echaa hoti ki usse dekhta rahoon. main kya karo "

Instead of seeing her daily go today directly and make friendship with her. Love first phase is friendship. If that girl really interested on you and if she don't have any life partner she will join you as a friend. try it today goahead. smilies/smiley.gif
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help
written by abhishek, July 19, 2010
give me some idea to express her my feeling about her.voo ushi bus se travel karti hai jise main karta hoon. main usse dekhne ke baad usse kuch bolhi nahi pata bas echaa hoti ki usse dekhta rahoon. main kya karo
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, July 10, 2010
"Hi loveguru! I m sat ask u about my problem previously.i want suggetion,my ex-girlfriend want she would be friend with me.can i make friendship with her.it's right or wrong.tel me "

Hi Sat,

I like to say you one thing making friendship with her there is no problem. But there will one problem will always arise when she will go with her boyfriend for dating or when you see them together you can't control your self. Best let live her life separately with her first love. My word is painful but good for your love as well for you too.
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written by Sat, July 10, 2010
Hi loveguru! I m sat ask u about my problem previously.i want suggetion,my ex-girlfriend want she would be friend with me.can i make friendship with her.it's right or wrong.tel me
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, July 09, 2010
"Love tragedy
Hi loveguru,i have a gf.she is with me from 2 years.we r perfect couple,love to each other very much.but a week ago she cal me & says she had 1st boyfriend & now she is being with him.i want her.what can i do? "

Hi Sat,
I will suggest you not to go with her for your future love story. If she leave you today anyhow again you manage to come her to your life she will again go with her first love. Believe me I know your sad days are going on and my suggestion is simply unacceptable for you but that is true. Go with your friend family for outing that will help you to forgive her. Forgive her buddy Love do not say you get her throughout your life. Its all sacrifice this will be your true love for her.
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Love tragedy
written by Sat, July 09, 2010
Hi loveguru,i have a gf.she is with me from 2 years.we r perfect couple,love to each other very much.but a week ago she cal me & says she had 1st boyfriend & now she is being with him.i want her.what can i do?
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, July 06, 2010
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i love a girl very much!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"hi love guru i m honey,,, i love a girl since my childhood but in my childhood her mom came with her and ask her to tie me a rakhi and she did,,,, and at that time i even dnt knw the word relationships i jst happily permitted her to do that.. but after doing that our family never let us to be frank even after she tied me rakhi...but as i grew up i come to knw what is love.. then i start loving her...she is very cute and nyc girl so i cant even tel her that i love u coz i dnt knw whether she have the same feeling for me or not,,, and if i will tell her she may got hurt ant rather to hurt i will prefer to be quite and spend my whole lyf as her brother without ever expressing my feelings to her... so loveguru can u help me out???"

Hi Honey,

You Know what is Rakhi?
Before you take any decision you read this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Raksha_Bhandan
Rakhi is not only the realtion of brother and sister. It is a holy relation between 2 friends.Rakhi say when a women tie a Rakhi she need a protection from that man. As husband is also protecting there wife so there is no problem if they are wearing Rakhi from wife. Even I wear Rakhi from my girlfriend as she believe I always protect her from everything. So no need to worry abt that. If you really love her. Just goahead and tell her your feeling and also tell her the Rakhi explanation she may understand and can accept you gladly.
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, July 06, 2010
"hi ,
i m studying in engg. college i got with friendship with a girl in 2nd sem and started loving her deu to her character,way of talking,eyes......&lots more .but soon my other classmates figured out that i love her.they started joining our name together & all those lousy things but all i can do to stop them was nothing more i resist more they houl so my friendship with girl broke upsmilies/sad.gif then to stop them i said i like another girl .


afterward one of her friend told that there was a moment she liked me.this burned from inside as i never said about my feelings to her in fea of loosing her friendship.now she dosent talk to me .

problem is she cant talk to me because if anyone came to known of it then they will say that we r having affair.
she love her parents a lot so she said me that not to do the things that will hurt both of us till the end.
after that also we sit in benches jst side by side to each other but now in this nearness also there is a large distance betwwen us.

and now i still love her with all my heart ,this is my last year of college .....
i just want to spend some beautiful moments with her atleast maybe as a friend ....



plssss help me out i m dying from inside "

Hi love is beautiful,

Bud you need to make her understand that everyone love there parents a lot even you too. But if she really have any feelings about you she must love you because that is god gifted and we should not go beyond the GOD then no one will be happy. Make her understand. Budddy if today you loose her tmrw there will be no place for explanation convince her that you are her true love. Parents are always in respect and love but that does not mean your love may hurt them.

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i love a girl very much!!!!!!!!!!!!!
written by honey singh, July 06, 2010
hi love guru i m honey,,, i love a girl since my childhood but in my childhood her mom came with her and ask her to tie me a rakhi and she did,,,, and at that time i even dnt knw the word relationships i jst happily permitted her to do that.. but after doing that our family never let us to be frank even after she tied me rakhi...but as i grew up i come to knw what is love.. then i start loving her...she is very cute and nyc girl so i cant even tel her that i love u coz i dnt knw whether she have the same feeling for me or not,,, and if i will tell her she may got hurt ant rather to hurt i will prefer to be quite and spend my whole lyf as her brother without ever expressing my feelings to her... so loveguru can u help me out???
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i dont know what to do next
written by love is beautiful, June 29, 2010
hi ,
i m studying in engg. college i got with friendship with a girl in 2nd sem and started loving her deu to her character,way of talking,eyes......&lots more .but soon my other classmates figured out that i love her.they started joining our name together & all those lousy things but all i can do to stop them was nothing more i resist more they houl so my friendship with girl broke upsmilies/sad.gif then to stop them i said i like another girl .


afterward one of her friend told that there was a moment she liked me.this burned from inside as i never said about my feelings to her in fea of loosing her friendship.now she dosent talk to me .

problem is she cant talk to me because if anyone came to known of it then they will say that we r having affair.
she love her parents a lot so she said me that not to do the things that will hurt both of us till the end.
after that also we sit in benches jst side by side to each other but now in this nearness also there is a large distance betwwen us.

and now i still love her with all my heart ,this is my last year of college .....
i just want to spend some beautiful moments with her atleast maybe as a friend ....



plssss help me out i m dying from inside
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, June 16, 2010
"Dont know what to do???
Love guru
i love a girl very much she is my good friend but we had not meet each othes since 1 year ago
we chat with each other and talk on phone sometimes
i dont know what to do???
plz suggest me something coz i m feeling lonely without her!!! "

Ok simple solution for your problem. I am seeing a love butterfly is just sleeping in your heart. wake up that love butterfly fix a date now. Go to some romantic place and propose her. May be same feeling is going on her mind too. So don't wait. Today your day man. Call her and fix a date right now. smilies/smiley.gif
Praying to God you can win her heart soon. smilies/smiley.gif
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, June 16, 2010
Hi sweety,

"help me
Hello love guru
I have a big problem about my love life
I love to some one , I with him from last 1 year n we have all type of relationships
Now he saying me that he can’t marry with me by itercast
I cant live without him I love him soooooooooooo much
Now he had left job from here n set in chandigarh
He says me he loves me n he will come sure but my all frnds say me that he has been engaged with some one
Forget him he will never come but i need him n I want to marry with him
I can leave everything 4 him my parents n my siblings everything I can leave
Plzzzzzzzz help me what I should do ?
I cant forget him
Plzzzzzzzzzzz give me some tips by which he will come sure for me forever"

I can understand your feeling do you have his number?? Just a give a call to him and say him what you are listening from your friend. And notice his behavior. If this guy truly love you he will come back and marry you and If he do some kind of immature behavior. I will suggest not to go with him. There is someone a good person waiting for you. Because if today he can reject you due to caste suppose any how you get married with that person just imagine is that guy can give you all happiness throughout your life. We find life partner to share our 2nd half life with them. Read the below quote hope your answer is there.

"Finding a life partner is like choosing a bed. You need one as a friend either in times of health or sickness. Freshness or weariness. Happiness or sadness. And we can be certain that we've picked the right one without having to sleep with it first."

Love Guru
lv
written by Love Guru, June 16, 2010
Hi ansh,
"lv
i like a girl but unable to tell her tried but failed now what to do . "

If you love her truly you must tell her. Just call her now and tell her your feeling about her. If she reject then we will think. But I sure she will reject if she don't have any one in her life.
Love Guru
HBK (heart break kid)
written by Love Guru, June 16, 2010
Hi rohit,

"HBK (heart break kid)
she rejected my call n later day i went her home she said "i dn't want c u any more". i said y she did'nt reply me. now if try cal her she dis connect my call n more. she looks at me in angery face "

Go to her and ask her why she is not responding you. In the begging she will try to neglect but if you don't loose your patience she will tell you. And then let me know I will suggest.
Sorry to respond late.
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Dont know what to do???
written by rockoo, June 16, 2010
Love guru
i love a girl very much she is my good friend but we had not meet each othes since 1 year ago
we chat with each other and talk on phone sometimes
i dont know what to do???
plz suggest me something coz i m feeling lonely without her!!!
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help me
written by sweety, June 12, 2010
Hello love guru
I have a big problem about my love life
I love to some one , I with him from last 1 year n we have all type of relationships
Now he saying me that he can’t marry with me by itercast
I cant live without him I love him soooooooooooo much
Now he had left job from here n set in chandigarh
He says me he loves me n he will come sure but my all frnds say me that he has been engaged with some one
Forget him he will never come but i need him n I want to marry with him
I can leave everything 4 him my parents n my siblings everything I can leave
Plzzzzzzzz help me what I should do ?
I cant forget him
Plzzzzzzzzzzz give me some tips by which he will come sure for me forever
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lv
written by ansh, June 03, 2010
i like a girl but unable to tell her tried but failed now what to do .
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HBK (heart break kid)
written by rohit, May 15, 2010
she rejected my call n later day i went her home she said "i dn't want c u any more". i said y she did'nt reply me. now if try cal her she dis connect my call n more. she looks at me in angery face
Love Guru
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written by Love Guru, May 10, 2010
Hi Silky,
This is the common problems for the girls. At the certain time they can't take decision whom they will listen to there boyfriend or there parents. If this is the case my suggestion is to investigate your boy friend and there family background if everything is fair if he really love you a lot. Then desperately go ahead with boy friend instead with your parents decision. In most cases parents are quite experience to take decision for their children life but for love and marriage I don't think parents alone should take any decision. You are going to live with your husband entire life not with your parents.

Not less of love, but expanding
Of love beyond desire, and so liberation
From the Future as well as the past.
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written by Silky, May 10, 2010
hii love guru,, plz give me some suggestion,, m in very big problem
actually i love someone n he also loves me more thn his life,, bt i knw that my parents n family will nt accept hm as my husband.. and i also dnt want to b oppose my parents,, bt also dnt want to lose my love.. plz suggest me smthing
Love Guru
Hi Rocker
written by loveguru, April 14, 2010
Love is an object of warm affection or devotion. Right now if you tell her may be she will just refuse you again instead wait for sometime and give your time with her. Do something good for her so that she can feel like you but that should be very neutral you should not show your emotion to her. Show her how much you are caring to her. Girls are very soft hearten and always in mood of searching for caring opposite sex person when they are alone. So this is your good time to be with her as she do not have any boyfriend now.
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love!!
written by rocker, April 13, 2010
hello,
well loveguru i think your experience man lol.. so try to solve my solution.. em hell tensed..!
there is a girl i know with whom when we were not friends i told her that i love her.. but i didn't mean that time.... but she was fallen with love with someone for 2 years and only phone conversation not dating one and she loved his boy friend very much but his boyfriend broke her heart and he started dating her friend shes my friend and i love herr more then myy life, i am her best friend(She says) but her facebook status is so emotional that she loves his old x-boyfriend very much and i think she only takes me as a friend she even says me love youu but as a friend.. i am totally confused yaar.. i don't know what to do. And i even know his 2 brothers they both are good friend of mine. i think she only talks to me because of his brothers like they don't know. i just wanntt heer! pleaseee tell me should i propose her again? after 1 year?
byex..
Love Guru
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written by loveguru, April 06, 2010
ok Here is the solution for you "sharad".

At first you need to understand whether you really fall in love with that girl or not. Sometime we see beautiful girl and fall in love and again seeing another person more then the present one we again fall in love with that girl too.

OK boys are always nervous while talking to girl. Keep your nervousness inside your mind and repeat from inside of your mind "I can do it".If you have her phone number send her some good sms of friendship as well some funny sms. Say every morning "good morning" and night "goodnight" through sms. And also ask her "if possible May I call you whenever you get time" Girls like this sms. Remember you should be very descent while talking to her. Normally through phone calls and sms friendship start and gradually once both understood each other they fall in love.
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love need to hapen
written by sharad, April 05, 2010
helo love guru, i love one girl which stayes in my building .she looks so cute and sexy that i fall love with her.
but now the main problem is that ,she is exactly opposite of me.we talk with each other,but nota as the friend but the champu and sexy lady.i have always been the champu in my life,so i feel uncomfortable with the girls,i cant
even talk with girls properly. yes i know the change is required from my side,but the main qestion is HOW? she is very friendly with boys and girls,exactly opposite of what i am.so what should be done so that she will attract towards me.
Love Guru
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written by love guru, April 02, 2010
Hi priya,

It is bad to hear your boy friend is not talking to you and he is having affair with someone else. From my personal experience I can suggest you if in 3 month he forget you and try to find out some other partner I suggest you not to go with him for long term instead wait for sometime he will come back if he loved you truly for last 3 month.

"All our young lives we search for someone to love. Someone who makes us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope. All the while wondering if somewhere, somehow, there's someone perfect who might be searching for us."
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love
written by priya, April 02, 2010
hi . i m priya. i lyk one boy i know he also lke me .and he purpose me . 3 months v r n realiton dan he told me dat he want brekup becoz he lyk another girl ..... and nw i m very sad. i really lyk him......... and nw he s nt tlkg with me .....tell me wht cn i dosmilies/angry.gif
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love guru
written by amritasingh, December 22, 2009
hiiiiiiii darling you are very sweet
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hi
written by jaya, October 23, 2009
HELLO LOVE GURU..........
I LIKE ONE BOY HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, I HAVE CONFESSED 2 HIME THAT I LIKE HIM.EVEN HE LIKES ME, I THINK AS A FRIEND......HE DOSEN'T SPEAK ABOUT HIS 'GF' IN FRONT OF ME HE THINKS IT WILL HURT ME. HE COMES 2 MEET ME DAILY EVEN KNOWING THAT I LIKE HIM............WHAT SHOULD I DO- DOES HE LIKES ME & HE IS CONFUSED WETHER WHOM 2 CHOOSE OR IS THERE ANY OTHER REASON??? PLZZZZZZZ HELP ME OUT.
Tina
love problem
written by Love Guru, June 24, 2009
"i like a girl but i don't she likes me or not so please help me out"

Hi Himanshu singh

Girls are very soft hearten. They like to listen to boys. Your try to make friendship with her make her your good friend but don't forget your old friend after some day you say her your felling you will obviously get success.

start with yellow rose and turns yellow rose to red. smilies/smiley.gif



Tina
my relationship has been broken
written by Love Guru, June 24, 2009
If you really love your partner there is nothing which can separate you from your loving partner. Family always try to think good for you. But you are the only person who can judge which will be the best for you, your loving partner or person whom your family select for you.

For your such case you always take decision from yourself ask from core of heart and do what your heart saying.
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love problem
written by Himanshu singh, June 04, 2009
i like a girl but i dont she ikes me or not so please help me out
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my relationship has been broken
written by ash, May 23, 2009
my relationship has been broken due to family reasons.I dont know what to do
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written by ash, May 23, 2009
my love propose always get rejected

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